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In memory of

Robert Louis Cole

Durham, NC
June 3, 1951 - February 7, 2023
Jun 3, 1951 - Feb 7, 2023
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I can still see Rob across the fence, working in his yard or in his workshop.  He was always ready to give me a helping hand in my yard when I needed  an extra pair of hands.  I lazed away many a warm evening with Rob and Lyn at their backyard fire pit having good conversation over a glass of wine.  I will never stop missing him.  

Didi Pearce

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We think of you all everyday. Sending you love, light and healing. May his memory forever be a blessing. 

Becca, Chip, Liam & Jackson Tieder

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I am so grateful that I was able to finally meet Rob and spend an evening with him and Lyn this past summer as they were passing through during their RV travels. He was a wonderful guy and Todd and I thoroughly enjoyed the evening we spent with them. Much love and prayers to Lyn and the family, 

Michelle

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I am missing my fence buddy.  We had great conversations over the fence.  If good fences make good neighbors, this is a great fence.

Didi

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Dear Lyn and family,

 We are grieving Rob’s sad passing and send our deepest sympathies to each of you. We were blessed to call him our friend and will miss his stories,  wonderful laugh and the fun times we had with him and your family. May you carry his lovely spirit in your hearts forever as you remember the beautiful life you shared. Rest in eternal peace dear friend!

With love,

Keith and Vicky Hershberger 

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Our sincerest sorrow for this tremendous loss. His light and legacy are clearly felt from the memories shared here, and will carry on through all those he loved. Holding space for your grief and sending our love and care as you navigate the coming days.
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Dearest Lyn,  I was very shocked to see this about Rob.  You two were a couple to be admired and were certainly loved by many.  Memories of the two of you takes me back to a time in life that always puts a smile on my face!!  You were certainly the love of his life and were very lucky to have found each other at such a young age.  Wishing you strength and sending love at this terrible time.  May God touch you and heal your pain.  Much Love, Paula Bobo Nash
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There are so many stories to tell from over the years. The one that takes the cake for me is the time Rob called me in Atlanta from Alabama because he was stuck in a closet. Rob was doing a site inspection and the locking side of the lock was installed wrong and he shut the door and it locked him in the closet! After a few hours and many phones calls we got him out!
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We were greatly saddened to learn of Rob’s passing.  He surely was a great man.  We send our deepest sympathy and condolences at this time. 
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So sorry to hear of Rob’s passing.  We were classmates at PBHS and it was wonderful to see him and catch up at our 50th reunion.  May he rest in peace.🙏🏻
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Brian, Iris Lee, and family : we are so deeply sorry. We send our love, prayers, and a big warm hug from PR. We love you so much and wish we could be there with all of you. Please share our condolences to the rest of your family. Los queremos mucho, Aixita, Christian y Julián. Xoxo
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So sorry Lyn to hear of Rob’s passing.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your Family

Tommy and Jerri Scott

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I am so sorry to hear that Robert has passed.  He and I went to the 9th grade dance at Golfview.  I always thought so highly of him.  A very nice friend.  Prayers to his family.
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So very sorry for your loss.  What a wonderful person Rob was.  My heart is breaking for you and you are in my prayers.  Just so so sad.  
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Oh my God! You totally look like him… Each time you look in the mirror, you’ll remember him and that’s his best gift to you ♥️

May his soul rest in peace.

My sincere condolences dear Brian, to you and to your family.

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Oh, Lyn.  How our hearts are broken.  Rob was one of our family when we were growing up.  He and Bruce were inseparable.  He was another brother.  Such a spirit!  Just a joy to be around!  So funny and larger than life.  And a treasured family friend.  We will always have Rob in our hearts and memories, and know that that is a gift that lives forever.
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Oh Brian, I am so sorry to hear this. I can still hear your dad’s voice and his contagious laughter. He was such a kind and genuine human being. Praying for peace and comfort for you all. 
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Lynn,

Fran and I are so sorry to hear of the passing of Rob.  We still think fondly of our days in Gainesville.  

You and your family will be in our thoughts and prayers. 

John Renault 

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Dear Lyn and family - I am so sorry to hear of Rob's passing.  I have such fond memories of when you and Rob first started dating, and of course just being your neighbor.  My prayers and thoughts are with you at this time.   Donna Hastings Nigels
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Brian and Iris—your dad sounds like a wonderful human being, especially because he rescued animals. I’m sending love and light to you and your family during this sad time. 

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Our sincere condolences to the whole family. Wishing you strength and healing.
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He has a beautiful legacy of wonderful, compassionate humans that will allow his spirit to live on.  Love to you all, now and always.
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We are so sorry to hear of Rob's passing.  He and Lyn shared a good life together, ever since we all were in HS.

Cherish your memories of this special man. 

With Regards 

Gretchen and Steve Everman 

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Nuestras sinceras condolencia, ante tan triste pérdida. Un abrazo a la distancia de Camila y Elena. Concepción-Chile
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