Grandpa was the person in my life who had loved the most. Every day, he put forth all his energy to love and care for others. My favorite memories of him are fishing with him, eating his pancakes, and playing games with him. He taught me so much about how to love those closest to you. He showed me how just being in the presence of someone you love can solve any problem. He showed me how you have to be honest with those closest to you. He also emphasized the importance of a good time, whether it was playing games, or hanging out on the beach.
Grandpa was not perfect, nobody is, but I can't think of anything that was imperfect about him. He worked hard, all his life to supply those he loved with the knowledge and means to love everyone with their whole heart. Grandpa was also very proud of everyone in his life. He told my siblings and I every time he saw us how great we were doing in school and in our lives. I can’t ever summarize the life of my Grandpa,
I only truly remember his last 10 years, however the time I spent with him during those 10 years was some of the most valuable time I have experienced. In summary, Grandpa’s life was lived to the fullest. He had done far more for everyone, than anyone could have asked for. Sometimes we wish we could live forever, but that would just degrade the value life holds on this Earth. Life is beautiful because God can decide that death at a particular time follows his plan. The night Grandpa died, I watched a video that highlighted what people feel when they die. It emphasized the sense of completion many felt as they slipped away from life, only to be brought back again in a hospital. Sadly, this was not Grandpa’s reality as he never was brought back again in a hospital.
However, I believe he felt a tremendous sense of completion in his life as you look back at the friends he made, and the family he built. I can’t sum it up any better than this quote by Wolfgang Patersen, “Men are haunted by the vastness of eternity. And so we ask ourselves: will our actions echo across the centuries? Will strangers hear our names long after we are gone, and wonder who we were, how bravely we fought, how fiercely we loved?” And I can say for sure that grandpa fought for everything he cared for, and loved everyone, so much so that he worked his entire life for everyone around him.
I love you Grandpa and will miss you very much,
- Andrew