Even though we were divorced for 34 years, we always remained friends. I could always count on him. When I was back in KC in '23, he and Chula came to visit us often at the apartment in NKC.  His neighbors are very sad at his passing and it makes me happy to know the amount of friends and people who cared for him, even though he had no family here. Handball and pickleball, eating out with friends, keeping fit, his kids and his sweet pug Chula gave him purpose and brought him happiness. He lived a good life. You will be missed Ray.