Randy was my nephew. and with a heavy heart I will be at his celebration of life service.  Nobody expects to go to bed and die in their sleep but if that is the way you have to leave this world, I guess it is the best way to go.  I loved Randy very much because he could make me laugh even if I didn't want to.  He also was also very serious sometimes., It was hard to tell the difference.  I know for a fact that he had a lot of pain in his body because sometimes when we were chatting on the phone, he would tell me he would call me back when he felt better.  He was proud of the things that he did like getting his scooter and getting his insurance so he could get to his doctor appointments.  He had friends that would take him if he didn't take the bus.  Even though he was stressed out about a refrigerator he bought he was starting a new hobby of making mugs and key chains because it took his mind off his problems.  He was going to be my date for my high school graduation, like he did before.  I was really looking forward to that and if I would have died before him, I was going to give him my car (not that he ever asked me for it).  There is so much more that I can say but I am still in state of shock that he is no longer with us. His family has been told that he died with a smile on his face, so I hope to God that Randy is in a better place, and it is a place of peace and happiness RIP