So sorry for your loss.  Prayers for the family.

Aunt Pam.. you definitely were one of a kind ❤️ Always having fun as kids w/you.. very memorable moments. You will truly be missed ❤️ love you always! 

In middle and high school, the Borsa house was the place to be for bonfires, movie nights, and last minute school video projects. I believe the first time I met Pam was at one of Jill’s bonfires, feeling awkward and socially anxious. Pam took me under her wing and made me feel seen and heard. She always spoke to me like an adult, and she never sugar coated any of her advice. She taught me so many things over the years, here are just a few of those life lessons:

1. NEVER attempt to interrupt or deescalate an argument in the Borsa household. They will look at you like you’re crazy and maybe turn on you in the heat of the moment.

2. One time Pam slipped and fell on her way out of the house, and laughed so hard. We were all dying laughing. She ended up peeing a little, because apparently after pregnant people give birth, they can be plagued with a little pee if they laugh too hard.

3. I will look good in my older years, because she thought my dad looked handsome and he and I a look like carbon copies. I didn’t get many messages like that from the adults in my life, and I’ll always remember how great that made me feel.

4. Family is the most important thing in your life. Most importantly you do not have to have a partner to feel fulfilled.

5. There is nothing a woman cannot do if she puts her mind to it.

I’ll add to my list as I revisit so many good memories of the time I got to spend with the Borsa family ❤️