I worked with Nick for several years in Ocean City, MD. He was part of the best groups of people/friends/brothers I’ve ever worked with. He often said it could never be replicated.
When I heard he passed, I felt a really strong sense of sadness and loss, because he was such a dynamic and larger than life person when he wanted to be, and when you were his friend, he always wanted to be.
I remember so many moments that meant something to me and I hope they meant something to him.
One day he was scheduled to come in to work later, and for some reason me and my coworkers, Sam and Andre, decided to talk like Batman. Well Nick, unbeknownst to us, came in a terrible mood, and the three of us just started growling things at him like Batman. His face lit up, and he said he was prepared to be in a bad mood all day and in 7 seconds we’d bright him out.
We’d talk superheroes, books, movies, music, sports, life, and everything in between while tossing a nerf football he’d brought in. We’d all goof off and joke with each other, taking shots when we could. Nick being 25 years older than me, would often get “old man” jokes tossed his way, first he’d loudly grumble “oh, my lumbago!” and then he’d congratulate me on a good joke and tell me “Wit for wit’s sake”.
I’ll miss making him laugh, not that it wasn’t hard to do, but with him it was always genuine, it was always him wearing his heart on his sleeve and his soul on his chest like a big Superman symbol.