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Poetry, love of the Messiah, graciously frank, capable of deepthroated guffaws.  Didn't know Mary long enough but lordy did the heavens break her mold when she was born.  I am so so grateful to have known her.
I learned months after my dear  friend Mary's passing just before Christmas, 2024. I'd not heard responses to my phone messages or emails for too long and worried that something like this had happend. Then Mary's son called to let me know that my dear friend Mary had gone to heaven. May love and light perpetual shine upon her.
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Hi Momma, I wish you were here. I miss you every day, but I carry you close to my heart everywhere I go.❤️❤️❤️❤️☮️☮️☮️
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Mary was a beloved member of the St. Andrew's poetry collective. She sat by my side on Fridays from noon to 1:00 p.m. On her last Friday, she read Ultimate Sabbath, a poem she had revised that morning:

People saw I was dying

and began to applaud

then praise, yet

all I did was die.

Death caught me

napping, a book

lying open

across my chest,

last breaths crackling.

Then a long hiss,

the way ice meets fire,

the way peace descends

after long exhalations,

the peace that passeth all understanding.

Then, I understood.

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Mary understood and embodied that peace.  Lord, make us all instruments of such peace. 

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