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In memory of
Mary Elizabeth "Mary" Santamaria Otis Stoof
July 20, 1964 - November 21, 2025
Jul 20, 1964 - Nov 21, 2025
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$280.00
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Background
Like many, Mary struggled with an addiction to alcohol, despite her efforts to overcome it. Addiction is a disease, and like any illness, early treatment makes a difference. In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation in Mary's honor to this or any organization committed to helping people battling addiction.
If you or a loved one are struggling with an addiction, help is out there. Connect with treatment and mental health referrals near you by:
Calling 1-800-662-HELP (4357)
Texting your zip code to HELP4U (435748)
SAMHSA offers free, confidential help for people facing substance abuse issues Contribute to Cumberland Heights Foundation
If you or a loved one are struggling with an addiction, help is out there. Connect with treatment and mental health referrals near you by:
Calling 1-800-662-HELP (4357)
Texting your zip code to HELP4U (435748)
SAMHSA offers free, confidential help for people facing substance abuse issues Contribute to Cumberland Heights Foundation
All contributions made to Cumberland Heights Foundation through Ever Loved will be sent with the designation, “Wherever it is needed most”, at Alexi Otis, Kathryn Otis Ducceschi, Phil Otis and Jasper Stoof's request.
Recent contributions to Cumberland Heights Foundation
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Memories & condolences
Mary was a big part of so many of our lives in BVI, where we all met, and many had kids that grew up together in this g…
Mary was a big part of so many of our lives in BVI, where we all met, and many had kids that grew u…
Mary was a big part of so many of our lives in BVI, where we all…
I grieve for the pain of indescribable loss of a daughter, mother and sibling. My deepest condolences, especially to yo…
I grieve for the pain of indescribable loss of a daughter, mother and sibling. My deepest condolenc…
I grieve for the pain of indescribable loss of a daughter, mothe…
In lieu of flowers
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$280.00
contributed by 4 people
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Alexi Otis (Mary's sister),
Kathryn Otis Ducceschi (Mary's sister),
Phil Otis (Mary's brother) and
Jasper Stoof.
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