Oh, Wee Thang where do I start? You were and still are my oldest and best friend. If only our parents knew when they moved into our neighborhood, the lifelong relationship that ourselves, Jess and Sam would build. How many nights did we spend watching the Little Vampire VHS on bean bag chairs or smashing nibbler pretzels with bats in my basement? In our youngest years you were more of a brother to me than a sister in your (very long) Tom Boy phase. As we grew up, you became a beautiful, loving woman and found Ryan, an incredible human, to complement your boundless energy & share the rest of your life with.
Through it all, we were together attached at the hip, going to and doing everything as a pair from life's highest highs to life's lowest lows; What I would give to run around another block party, take care of English Cocker Spaniel puppies together, have another sleepover, and have you hang on me like a koala & lick my face every time I see you. When MacKenzie and I got engaged, you and Ryan were among the first people I facetimed to share my happiness with. We were supposed to get married 5 weeks apart from each other and share yet another milestone of our lives together.
Combing through my yearbooks, you wrote some of the simplest things that we took for granted & had no idea would mean so much in a time like right now:
"By the way, hi see you at home" -Elementary School
"Can't wait for this summer, don't worry you will be with me everywhere ;)" - Jr. High School
"As we're leaving each other's sides for the first time since the womb, I honestly don't know what I'm going to do without you... You're my brother JP, couldn't imagine life without you and I'm glad I don't have to. I know you're going to be my best friend for life. I love you with all my heart JP." - High School
Even just last week you were begging me to go to the High School Reunion with you and Emily and talking about how much better at Chess I am than Ryan. I don't know what my life looks like without you around, you brightened everyone's lives and had so much more left to give, but we'll all do our best to spread a little extra light into the world since it just became dimmer. We may not have been blood, but you were undoubtedly a sister to me, and I love you endlessly now and forever. Wherever you are, I hope they have re-runs of Jim Carey's Grinch and lots of puppies.
Love always,
JP & MacKenzie