Thank you for being so kind and for your advice. I am sorry that you were not able to get to know my husband. The real Richard was kind, caring and smart. He had a lot of issues, and he was unhappy most of his adult like. When I met him, I saw his sadness, but focused on and nourished the positive traits he had. I know that you would have done the same but now that you have the opportunity, please get to know him and you will see the true Richard. He needed someone like you in his life and now you can help him like I did.