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Your mom was so lovely and that spirit lives on! Your are lovely too Kate,

4 years passed so quickly..I miss you my friend... but while in Spain and Portugal the last two years I could feel you with me..

Merry Heavenly Christmas 🎄 ✨️  I hope you know how loved you are... ❤️ 

 

I don’t remember Lois just on her anniversary but I remember her often.  I valued our friendship and miss her immensely.  Merry. Heavenly Christmas my friend🥰
I was very shocked to learn of Lois's passing. Lois talked withed me about finding my biological family. Lois had a lot of great advice. She will be greatly missed 
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Lois was one of those people who everyone loved.  She was really amazing.  When Pat and I started dating, she welcomed me with open arms.  I remember one time when we were young, no kids, and Barry was off hunting with some buddies. I was at Lois’ when Barry phoned wanting Lois to come to Boston Bar to pick them up.  The truck broke down and they were pissed.  Well, Lois asked me if I wanted to go on a road trip with her.  Of course I said yes!  Well, Lois only had the Volkswagen bug. We didn’t think about putting 3 guys in the backseat until we got there! We poured them into the back seat and drove home.  Good thing they didn’t get anything!  What a trip!
I went to school with both Lois and Bruce and was saddened to hear of Lois' passing, I am glad I talked to her shortly before. Lois was always such a kind and gentle person. My condolences to her family.
Kalinda & Brad, Darlene Napper
2016, Plateau Drive, Squamish, BC, Canada - right next door

We first met Lois in Sept 2016 when we moved in right next door.  Her and Bruce introduced themselves as "The Neighbors" - then explained that it meant more than just living next door.  They were the best neighbours anyone could wish for.  Truly!

We often found ourselves talking through the fence in the garden... (the fence that her and Bruce so kindly constructed while Brad and I were working "We'll do it, you two are busy and we've got nothing better to do" ) It brought us together often - we both love gardening and talking, especially about food and recipes.  We shared recipes and dishes. The famous Instapot cheesecake was the best, and having a cuppa together while she taught me how to make it was a special time.  She convinced me it was worth having an Instapot in my kitchen!

Lois kindly took our girls in for scrapbooking sessions, generously giving her time and supplies. They loved it and they loved Lois.

The last time I visited with Lois, we were chatting in the driveway.  It wasn't long before she left us and Lois was wearing her pj's (as she often did - love...) and walking Luna. I probably saw her in her pyjamas as often as her clothes - haha - and I loved how comfortable Lois was just to be herself.  I kinda want to wear my pj's to her celebration of life as a final hurrah for Lois - PJ's rule... but I won't.

We feel so blessed to have shared a fence with Lois and Bruce.  Both of them so kind and gentle.  Lois, so compassionate, generous, kind, loving, fun loving and funny.  And not to forget, such incredible strength, always taking care of others.  I wish she could have given us all a chance to take care of her, but she left us too soon -  way too soon...   Lois was a beautiful human being that I'm grateful to have known, even for just a short time.

Our condolences to Bruce and all the loved ones Lois left behind.  And especially to you Maria - because watching Lois parent a teen has been the greatest gift for me.  Her lessons are in place now and proving to be more valuable than learning how to make a cheesecake in the Instapot.  Maria, if you take on just a portion of your Grandmas special qualities, you'll do just great girl xx.  

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Living first in a different province, and then across the Strait, I never saw Lois much in person. Just at family reunions and get togethers and later as Facebook friends. She was always so nice, and such a happy personality, that I immediately felt comfortable with her. I was always impressed by Lois' attitude. She just seemed to get stuck in and get things done. I am a procrastinator, and I envied her determination. Such a lovely person, gone too soon. Heartfelt condolences to Bruce and the rest of the immediate family.
Moneta, Bruce and Lois at the…
2013, Jasper, AB, Canada
Moneta, Bruce and Lois at the family reunion
Lois was the mommiest of all mom's. She fed you and hugged you and listened to your problems, no matter if you were related to her or not. Somehow just being with her and getting a hug made everything seem OK. Kate took me to Whistler for my 30th birthday and I was a single mom so Lois just offered to absorb my son into the household for the weekend so that I could go. We came the night before to get Cameron settled and I asked if I could bring laundry to do myself as there was no machines in my rental. Lois graciously said yes. I fell asleep and when I woke up she had done all my laundry. I blushed bright red and was absolutely mortified that she saw my undergarments and was worried she put herself out to do my chore. Lois just laughed and hugged me and took all the awkwardness away saying it was nothing she hadn't seen before. It's may seem a strange memory to choose out of all the stories or good deeds she did but I think it speaks volumes to the core of who Lois was and why we celebrate her...just a kind, generous, good hearted person that went out of her way to make everyone in her orbit feel comfortable and welcomed. One of a kind special lady!
Thinking of you and your family as you celebrate the life of your beloved, wife, mother, and grandmother.   Lois was an amazing, gifted woman  whose talents never seized to amaze those around her.   Our prayers and thoughts are with you all.  

Kate, what can I say. Frank and I were both amazed a by your mum’s strength , energy and commitment to family. Which was good because we became family. Your mom and I were both delighted to become in-laws officially. I am so sorry we didn’t get more time together . We love you , condolences to  Bruce , and your family! You are your Mother’s daughter ❤️

 

I was so sadden to hear that Lois had passed. It was so close to XMAS, so sudden. I miss her encouraging posts. 
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I met Lois when I was hired to caregive and housekeep to Lois's mom, Crystal and dad Harv. Lois and I really bonded during her moms last hours. We endured the whole night together and in the morning we all surrounded Crystals bed as she slipped away peacefully. I was then asked to stay on with Harv. His health was failing as well. I did the best I could and was determined to be there for him when it was his time. However, there was a very tragic death in my family. I had a break down as he was very dear to me. I became ill and lost all my jobs. I was not there for Harv or Lois. A year later Lois and I reunited. It was as if nothing had happened and our friendship was focused on each other. I always loved Lois very much. We had a lot in common. When I left Squamish, she and Bruce used to come visit me in Maple Ridge. She then came and saw me in Kelowna when I moved here. She had said she was going to come see me this spring or summer. There were some personal things happening in my life and it wasn't until April or so when I realized Lois had not answered my text. I went to her page and there she was with the caption of "Happy heavenly Birthday Mom " I almost fainted! I always thought this beautiful, generous, loving woman would live forever! I still reel in shock when I think of her absence. It just isn't fair! I will miss you forever and always Lois. 😔💔 Thank you for all the fun we used to have and all the precious moments. I will miss you so much💕
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