It's difficult to believe that it's been four years since Kilton's passing. I think of him very often, his jokes and good humor, his knowledge and fascination about political affairs, his loyal and warm friendship. He should still be with us. He was a kind and thoughtful person, a gift of God. He blessed my life forever. We love you, Kilton.
Kilton was my step-cousin (his step-mother Jeanne is my aunt/sister of my mother). Although I had not seen him for a number of years, I have very fond memories of him as a child, even though he was 6 years older than I. I remember being so very impressed with him and thinking that he was very funny and smart! Kilton was a very kind man, and my heart goes out to his sons, Kendall and Jeanne. I'm sure he has been reunited with my favorite uncle, Dan P. Holmes and they are telling silly jokes in Heaven.
My heart and prayers go out to Kilton’s sons, his sister, step mother and extended family in his untimely death. Kilton was far too young to have died. We will miss him greatly.
I knew Kilton Holmes for about forty two years, ever since my Father married his aunt in 1977. Kilton was one of the kindest people I’ve ever known. He was funny, and I enjoyed a lot his sometimes odd sense of humor. Kilton had the courage to enjoy life his own way, and God was good to him.
He was a man of faith and he loved public affairs, too. He had an uncanny knack for observing with remarkable insight political events. In Tulsa, he made it his goal to know personally many office holders, and he was never timid in sharing with them his opinions. He was a pundit in his own right; but he cared deeply about the community and country which bore him. His love for the well being of the world around him had many sources: his faith in God and his family, including his mother, Mevidene, and his grandfather, Dan P. Holmes, Sr.
We need more citizens like Kilton Holmes! We have lost a good man; but I trust that he is not lost, but rests in the Lord’s loving hands, waiting for us to greet him again.
As Kilton's step-mother I watched him grow up to be a kind man with a good heart! After his father passed away almost 16 years ago, he would call me every week and never forgot to send me a Christmas card and birthday card! I will always remember his faithfulness in the "little things". They meant a lot to me and I will miss his calls.
I will miss Kilton's cheery greetings at the library. He always had conversational insights to enthusiastically share, and he never seemed to mind if folks had opposing views. City council meetings and news about space technology will always, always remind me of him!
I was a neighbor from the block--we were in the same kindergarten class and graduated high school together. Kilton was always friendly, kind. I am sorry that he may have endured pain. I hope there will be God's purest peace from heartache cancer caused for him and all who love him.
I was a college student at University of Tulsa and knew Kilton's mom through family connections in Pryor, OK. Kilton's mom arranged jobs at TU for my twin sister, Jill, and me which was wonderful. We also babysat Kilton and his sister, Kendall to make some extra money. Kilton was always a sweet and funny kid, and we never minded babysitting for the both of them. I've lost touch with Kilton, but Kendall has kept me updated on his whereabouts. I hope he is resting in peace and his family will be in my thoughts. Jana McBride Portland, OR
Gwartney cousins...Sister Kendall, Cousins Kim, Traci and Natasha...Kilton looks the most put together, like a cool folk singer. Just missing the guitar
I am so sorry to hear of this loss to your family. I wish I had words to provide comfort and wisdom to lessen this time of sorrow. Kilton was a classmate of mine from elementary through high school. I’ve lost several family members, each is different. I pray you treasure your memories and that the love of your family helps sustain you at this time.