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Kenneth Merrill Bolender (“Merrill”) passed away peacefully on January 10, 2025, in Indianapolis, IN, at the age of 88. Born in 1936 in Felicity, Ohio, to Herbert and Gertrude Bolender, he often joked that he was born right under the apple tree that grew over their farmhouse. After attending Olivet Nazarene College in Kankakee, IL, he met his beloved wife, Donna, in 1963 through their shared connection to the Nazarene Church. Merrill and Donna’s 60-year …

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Memories & condolences

Dear Donna, and all,

I was so sorry to hear of Merrill's sudden passing.  I've been thinking of a lifetime of visits, fr…

Dear Donna, and all,

I was so sorry to hear of Merrill's sudden passing.  I've been thinking of a li…

Dear Donna, and all,

I was so sorry to hear of Merrill's sudden p…

Dean Donna and family, I am so sad to know that this great man of God is gone  but also happy that Merrill is with Jesu…
Dean Donna and family, I am so sad to know that this great man of God is gone  but also happy that …
Dean Donna and family, I am so sad to know that this great man o…
Grateful for my Uncle Merrill, my mom's baby brother, and especially his dedication to  our Bolender family reunion all…
Grateful for my Uncle Merrill, my mom's baby brother, and especially his dedication to  our Bolende…
Grateful for my Uncle Merrill, my mom's baby brother, and especi…
Merrill was a wonderful friend to my father, Don Smithson. He and Donna were a great comfort to him after my mother’s d…
Merrill was a wonderful friend to my father, Don Smithson. He and Donna were a great comfort to him…
Merrill was a wonderful friend to my father, Don Smithson. He an…

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Born

September 7th, 1936
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Passed away

January 10th, 2025
Indianapolis, IN

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