I met Kathy after working with Mike closely for a few months.  Back then, the kids were still at home and she juggled her important work at the hospital and all the kids activities.   I wondered what kind of woman would keep Mike in line and then I met her.   

I thought she would be taller and meaner to manage my  stubborn work friend like she did.

Year in and year out, I’d hear all the stories about Kathy, kids, and her mom and knew that Kathy was pure gold.

The irony is that she established a Gold charity and included everyone close to her in the mission and journey. 

We went on a couple of long work trips - Mike and Kathy and Ian— and would have the best time.   I found Kathy to be fierce— and smart, and passionate.   I discovered instantly and first-hand why Mike and the kids loved her so.  She’d tell stories of her patients and their families - and always took personal interest in the wellness of the whole unit.   There would be big wins, and then the world would gain an angel.  This year, the world gained another one. 

There is not a finer family in Northeast Oklahoma and I am proudly to have known her. 

Kathy’s legacy will live on through Mike, the kids, and their kids.   Hopefully the littles will remember how much fun she had helping with their development and that she is watching over all of us in a subtle but firm way.

-Angie Buchanan