Hey! It’s Julie. If you’re reading this, it means I’m already dead. What a bummer! I didn’t want my mother to have to write this about me as I know how hard it’d be. (And I also didn’t want the funeral home to be in charge of it!) So I figured I’d write my own obituary, in my own words.
First things first -- the facts. I was born in the small town of Nevada Mo. to the best parents a kid could ask for Daniel J Nieder, and Brenda K Allee. I attended all my schools in Rich Hill annd Butler until I graduated from high school and decided to take on the world. I studied nursing, after years of working my way up the ladder. I was a single mother of 3 beautiful kids, all of whom were a handful and a half, but my greatest joy and pride in life.
As you know, my family means everything to me and I hope they are able to move past my death with strength in their hearts. To my family: please know how much I love you, how proud I am, and how I can’t wait to see you once you get to wherever it is I’m going.

No services will be held (at my request!), but I think the kids will be planning some type of party for me. Please attend this party with joy in your heart and only remember the good times. Also, no flowers please! I was never able to keep a plant alive and wouldn’t want to continue that tradition after I passed anyways.