Memories of Jordan Stanton Robert Cude

In memory of

Jordan Stanton Robert Cude

Charlotte, NC

November 11, 1988 - March 20, 2021

Nov 11, 1988 - Mar 20, 2021

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Lisa Cude

Lisa
I’m heartbroken for you and praying that Gods Love will enfold you during this sad time.
Love and Peace
Kathleen

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Lisa I don’t even have words. I don’t even know what to say. I’m sending so many prayers to you and your family and I know god will use all of his strength to get you through this time. Just know you are the most amazing mother ❤️.... I love you very much and you’re so strong. I’m here if you need anything at all 💕 I’m praying so much for you and constantly thinking about you. Just know you have endless love and support from all angles. Jordan is your guardian angel now and will always look after you and Caleb... Danielle

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Lisa Cude

Hi Lisa
My dad just told me. I am sooo sorry! So sad! 😭
Jordan 💔
I am praying for you all and love you very much. I'm here always if you need to talk. ... Thinking of you all and lifting up prayers often
Love you 💟.... I know nanny and papa were thrilled to have another grandson join them ❤️.... Jodi

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My heart goes out to you. I can’t imagine what you must be expecting at this time. I know you’re so strong and your faith will lead you to the purpose in everything. It’s a test. If there’s anything I can do don’t hesitate to reach out. My God bless you and yours. .... Bill

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Lisa Cude

Bless! I love you too! Let me know if you need anything! Thank you for sharing Lisa! He is so beautiful! Tina

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Lisa Cude

Lisa, I am so very sad and heart broken over Jordan’s death. I loved him dearly and will miss him, but I praise God that he is no long fighting that terrible addiction. I have prayed and cried so much since I got the news. I pray for peace and love. I love you.... Joan

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Lisa Cude

I had no idea of your loss until I saw on fb . I am so sorry ! I here if you need ANYTHING !!! You know that ! ❤️.
Sending a huge hug your way !
How are you sweet friend ? I’m here if you need anything ! Thinking about you everyday !! ❤️... Becky

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Lisa Cude

We all share in your loss. Thinking about you and your family. Thoughts and prayers for you and your family... Barbie

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Lisa Cude

Lisa, this is Patty. I am so sorry for your loss. I know what you have been going through as my son is an addict also. I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers. His son is lucky to have such a loving family. I hope you will find comfort in the wonderful memories your son left behind. 🙏

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Lisa Cude

I don’t know where to start but I am so so sorry for y’all’s lose. You know Jordan was a brother to me and I’m completely at a loss. I am praying for y’all and I love all y’all. If you need anything at all please don’t hesitate to call. He’s in a better place now where he doesn’t have to struggle everyday. Praying 🙏🏼 ... Soup

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Hey Ms. Cude, I’m so sorry to hear about Jordan. He was an awesome son, father, and brother...he was like the brother I never had. I love you guys and will be praying for you and the family! ... Matt Walser

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Lisa Cude

Oh......Lisa, I just don't know what to say.... I am so...so..so sorry!!! 💘.. Nicolette

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Lisa Cude

Lis,
So sorry for your loss😔 I know you must be Heart broken💔🙏.. Mysti

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Lisa Cude

The Lord is close to the Broken-hearted; and saves those who are crushed in spirit.
Psalms 34:18

Much love and hugs!! ❤️💞
Keeping you and family in my prayers!

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Oh dear Lisa.....there are no words. I'm so so sorry for your loss. Please know how much you are loved. My heart is broken for you. Love you sweet cousin❣.... Beautiful Lisa.....he is at peace now. Love you sending hugs!❣.. Maria

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Hi Lisa I’m so so so sorry my hart is crying for you sending you big warm hug please talk to me later... I wish I can be there but I be there in my prayers much love.... Mena

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As for grief, you’ll find it comes in waves. When the ship is first wrecked, you’re drowning, with wreckage all around you. Everything floating around you reminds you of the beauty and the magnificence of the ship that was, and is no more. And all you can do is float. You find some piece of the wreckage and you hang on for a while. Maybe it’s some physical thing. Maybe it’s a happy memory or a photograph. Maybe it’s a person who is also floating. For a while, all you can do is float. Stay alive.
In the beginning, the waves are 100 feet tall and crash over you without mercy. They come 10 seconds apart and don’t even give you time to catch your breath. All you can do is hang on and float. After a while, maybe weeks, maybe months, you’ll find the waves are still 100 feet tall, but they come further apart. When they come, they still crash all over you and wipe you out. But in between, you can breathe, you can function. You never know what’s going to trigger the grief. It might be a song, a picture, a street intersection, the smell of a cup of coffee. It can be just about anything…and the wave comes crashing. But in between waves, there is life.
Somewhere down the line, and it’s different for everybody, you find that the waves are only 80 feet tall. Or 50 feet tall. And while they still come, they come further apart. You can see them coming. An anniversary, a birthday, or Christmas, or landing at O’Hare. You can see it coming, for the most part, and prepare yourself. And when it washes over you, you know that somehow you will, again, come out the other side. Soaking wet, sputtering, still hanging on to some tiny piece of the wreckage, but you’ll come out.
Take it from an old guy. The waves never stop coming, and somehow you don’t really want them to. But you learn that you’ll survive them. And other waves will come. And you’ll survive them too. If you’re lucky, you’ll have lots of scars from lots of loves. And lots of shipwrecks

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Oh Lisa...
there are no words, only tears
his struggles are over but yours...
my heart breaks for you
I am here if you need me... I love you ... Bonnie

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Lisa Cude

I am so sorry, Lisa. I am here for you if you need anything at all. I am sending prayers of peace and healing to you and your entire family. Love you!

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