Memories of Jordan Stanton Robert Cude

In memory of

Jordan Stanton Robert Cude

Charlotte, NC

November 11, 1988 - March 20, 2021

Nov 11, 1988 - Mar 20, 2021

In lieu of flowers

Please consider a donation to Jordan Cude Memorial Fund.

Learn more & give
Help keep everyone in the know by sharing this memorial website.

Share

Story

Condolence

Year (Optional)

Location (Optional)

Caption

YouTube/Facebook/Vimeo Link

Caption

Who is in this photo?

Or start with a template for inspiration

About you

What was your relationship to Jordan?

Cancel

By posting this memory, you agree to our Terms of Service and Privacy Notice.

This site is protected by reCAPTCHA and the Google Privacy Policy and Terms of Service apply.

Lisa Cude

It’s pure hell, I say given I lost the younger of my two brothers. I hold onto the fact they are at peace with God our Father. If anyone gets sympathy instructions could you please share? Thanks.... Tanya

Read More Read Less

Lisa Cude

This is so very sad. Yet another young person gone too soon. My heart breaks for Lisa and her family... Valerie

Read More Read Less

Lisa Cude

This is heart-breaking. The pain of losing one’s child is beyond what I would be able to bear. My heart aches for Lisa and her family... Andy Ice

Read More Read Less

Lisa Cude

Please consider a donation to Jordan Cude Memorial Fund.

$2,155.00

total raised

Learn more & give

Lisa Cude

Oh Lisa, I am so sorry for your loss! This is every parents worst nightmare! My heart goes out to you!💔💔🙏🙏.. Suzy Ross

Read More Read Less

Lisa Cude

Lisa, I am so sorry to hear of this heartbreaking loss. My sincerest condolences to you and your family. My prayers are with you all. Very sincerely, April (Merrian) Barron.

Read More Read Less

Lisa Cude

So sending love ❤️ your way! You’ve been on my mind and 💜 heart... Carol

Read More Read Less

Lisa Cude

Lisa, I wanted to give it alittle while before I reached out to you about your son’s passing! I am so very sorry and you have been on my mine daily. I am praying for you and your family and I just cannot imagine the pain. My sister lost her son when he was only 19 and that was 31 years ago this past week also. Please accept my sincere condolences and remember that Hod has a better plan for him in heaven. He is with your MoM and DaD. Love you! Anita!

Read More Read Less

Lisa Cude

Hi Lisa, I am not a daily FB user but just popped on and wanted to personally reach out to let you know that you are in my thoughts and prayers... Vicki

Read More Read Less

Lisa Cude

Comments:

Maxine Dewhurst

Justin, my condolences to you and your family at this difficult time. Your poetry is wonderful and expressive,... Read more Justin, my condolences to you and your family at this difficult time. Your poetry is wonderful and expressive, thank you for sharing... Read more Justin, my condolences to you and your family at this... Read more

Lisa Cude

Thinking of you and the family! 💔... I know you hear it from everyone, but seriously please let me know if there is anything I can do I’m still in Waxhaw and I will help in any possible way I can! Love you all!... Jenna

Read More Read Less

Lisa Cude

Prayers for your family on Easter Sunday.... Eric Sowers

Read More Read Less

Lisa Cude

Hi Mrs. Cude. We've never met, but I went to Weddington all 12 years. I'm sure you went through and "loved" very comment on Justin's post about Jordan, but just seeing that response to mine was enough to make me feel like I should reach out to you. Collectively, as a community, we have suffered so many losses of good, young men. I am so profoundly sorry that this time the tragedy touched you and your family. Like Jordan was, I'm a father. I can't relate to having multiple children and raising them to adulthood, but I know what it is to love, and lose, a child. It's something I wouldn't wish on the worst people I know and I hope that by some combination of your family, your faith, and your community you are finding yourself able to get through the days.

I was never close to Jordan. I was a grade above Justin, so if memory serves that would have put Jordan 2 years ahead of me. I was close friends with the ———-, and Jordan was close with ———at the same time. We crossed paths enough that he is a part of my memory. I know he struggled with the bad habits that so many of us developed in school and after, but I also know that he was a son, a brother, and from what I gather a father. There's nothing any of us can say to ease the loss or dull the pain. Period. What I have learned to except, however, is that at long as we remember the ones we have lost, they're never truly gone. The most sincere thing I can say to you is that I remember Jordan. I remember his voice, I remember his face, and I will keep those memories alive with me in my little sliver of this existence. I plan to attend the celebration of life and hope to meet you during that time to offer you my condolences. Until that time, I hope you find what peace and comfort you can as you adjust and accept what is probably the hardest thing a parent can face.

I sincerely hope this message doesn't wake you. I'm sorry it's late, I don't sleep well.... Ryne

Read More Read Less

Lisa Cude

Lisa I don’t know for sure but I’m so sorry if you lost your son. I am here for you. Message me anytime. Prayers sweet lady. It’s never the same. I died when lsuren died... Oh Lisa 💔💔🙏🙏🙏🙏I don’t know what to say except I know your pain and whenever u want to talk I hwbe some on line support groups that will help and some books.
Can I have your address ?... I belong to a group “ not in vain “ it’s amazing. I am here any time of the day or night. Haven’t slept for years and now I can’t.
This is a hurt that is paralyzing. It’s your grief no one else’s. You were his mother it’s completely different. I want you to know your loved and reach out. 🙏🙏🙏🙏... 🙏🙏🙏🙏any thing you need I am here. I mean it. Only mothers know this kind of grief. When my dad died I was devastated I was pregnant for Lsuren. We always said she had his heart. Nothing compares to this.
I still can’t really do anything. So give yourself time... I understand anytime of day or night I mean that. Love and prayers and I’m so very sorry.... I pray your day isn’t too hard on your heart. I would be lying if I told you it gets better. I don’t know how Jordan died but I’m assuming if was fentanyl. None of them wsnred to die it was murder. If I’m wrong I’m sorry. If there’s snythjng I can do let me know... Ok sweet lady. I want you to know I care so much. The pain it takes your breath away. Why them why us we’ll never know.... Cherie

Read More Read Less

Lisa Cude

Lisa, I just saw your post. My heart breaks for you. I am sending love and prayers to you.... Lisa, I just read your beautiful tribute to your son. My heart breaks for you. Please know you are in my prayers. Much love to you and your family.... Jill

Read More Read Less

Lisa Cude

Oh God Lisa I just saw your post I’m doubled over on the floor crying. I have no idea I just saw it. Oh my gosh my heart is SO broken for you. Awe sweet Jordan. He loved the Lord. What about Caleb? Oh my heart is so broken. Can you let me know what the plan is for him? I would like to be there. Oh I’m so very sorry 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢... Lisa oh my gosh my heart is so broken for you. I was hoping he could get passed this but addiction is the worst thing on this planet. I love you and I sure loved Jordan. He is with our precious Savior now, free from pain singing the praises of Jesus. But that doesn’t help you at the moment. My dear friend from high school Sondra , her son passed away like this. And 2 other of my friends are going through it right now with their children. I love you. May the peace of God surround you. You are such a wonderful mother and he loved and worshipped you so much. He talked about you so much when he lived with me. I watched him cry a lot Lisa. I tried to help him. We talked about God a lot and I saw him reading my Bible many times on the couch. His faith was deep, he just struggled. And I understand that struggle. I am with you in spirit giving you hugs. All my love sent to you I just cannot imagine your pain.
❤️🙏❤️💔 ... Hey honey. Just checking on you. I cannot imagine the pain you feel. I am just so very sorry. I’m glad you’re bringing light to this problem. Poor Jordan. No one wakes up one day and decide to be an addict. It happens. I’m just so very sorry.

Read More Read Less

Lisa Cude

Comments:

Lisa Cude

Kim Kim Kim

Lisa Cude

Cherie Cole I empathize and unfortunately know firsthand throughout the years ... it’s been a real eye- opener and roller coaster ride ... I told Jordan that he is the strongest person that I know in trying to combat this ... I thought my love and nurturing could save him ... I’m completely heartbroken.. as so many are .... 💔

Read More Read Less

Lisa Cude

Ms. Lisa if there is absolutely anything I can do please don’t hesitate to ask. I can’t imagine how you feel but I know just how bad my heart is broken. I loved him so much 😭

Read More Read Less

Lisa Cude

I love you so much. I think about you all throughout the day and night. You are such a strong and faithful woman but you are a mom who has lost her oldest child and needs to grieve. Please know I am here day and night and I will get in my car at any time if you need me for anything or for nothing❤️ I’m so grateful we reunited🙏 My heart truly aches for you💔🙏💔🙏 I love you so much❤️ I am apprehensive to call you because I am so heartbroken and don’t want to breakdown. I want to be your friend who gives you hope and joy. You are such an inspiration to me❤️ You will keep his memory alive with your positive attitude and love for him. Don’t forget about yourself. I want to be there for you. I want to let you grieve however you need to when everything is over. It’s so hard on those left behind but I’m sure when you think of him in heaven with Jesus and your parents your heart smiles 😘 Bless your sweet heart Lisa... Your boys love and respect you so much and little Caleb... You have always been their rock and shown them the power of God’s grace and love and you are doing it for them thru this. You are a strong faithful woman✝️.... Sheila

Read More Read Less

Lisa Cude

Lisa...I’m not sure how or when we became FB friends but I know God put us in each other’s virtual paths for a reason: my older sister/best friend died unexpectedly from a fentanyl overdose on May 3rd, 2020. Of course all overdoes are essentially unexpected, but we had no idea how bad off she was in her addiction. As a matter of fact, I had just graduated from the Dove’s Nest 6-month-long rehab program in March 2020, and I had JUST tried talking about addiction with my sis, Taylor, in April 2020. She was in complete denial of her addiction and then died and left behind a loving husband and 2 boys both under the age of 3. I’m the youngest of three daughters and our family has always been so close, but as you can imagine our worlds are rocked.

There was something you posted a few days or weeks ago and it mentioned how you love to hear people telling stories about your son or mentioning whatever memories they have of him. I can relate as it fills my heart with joy to hear my sister’s name from ANYONE. My biggest fear is of people forgetting her...even worse, what if I start forgetting the memories I have of her?

I’m sorry for ranting and making this about me and my sister. My intentions are to simply let you know you are not alone, and I’m here for you if you ever want to just talk about Jordan.

Again, I know we don’t know each other, but I have a feeling Jordan and Taylor are high-fiving up above and smiling at this connection. They don’t want us to suffer or be alone....

Read More Read Less

Lisa Cude

Joe Cude

Thanks Joe! I feel like I can’t say anything except I love you and your family and I can’t think of a greater tragedy than this. Love you man .....
Bruce Scioto

Read More Read Less

Lisa Cude

Good morning lisa. Thank you for sending the write up about jordan. I've already read it online. It is beautifully written! I hope you are finding some comfort knowing how many people love you and your family and especially Jordan!.... Oh lisa, you are an inspiration to me! I just arrived at school and I'm wiping tears from my eyes. You are so strong and loving! I'm off all of next week for spring break, and of course I'm not going anywhere. Call me anytime if you want to talk. I love you! I KNOW that Jordan's memorial will be perfectly beautiful and full of love! Maria

Read More Read Less

Lisa Cude

Hi Lisa, I hope you are doing ok. I have been thinking of you. I sent you a card and it came back, I forgot to put the apt number 🥴 I will get it back in the mail. .. Kathy Joy

Read More Read Less