That’s unfortunate John’s first grand child is listed third after two step children of no blood relation who were not raised by John but wed into the family as young adults. His second grandchild is listed fourth. They should be listed in birth order and step grandchildren should be last. He took his role of grandfather very seriously and was extremely close to his eldest biological grandchildren with whom he spent the most amount of time with (over 30 years).  I wonder if the people who wrote this know anything about John and how he felt about his actual grand kids. Extremely disrespectful and insensitive.