“Topper”
He led us for four years on the hard courts at Campion. Displaying an unmatched vision for the open man and finding the gaps in the lanes he drove it home while assisting others to score more than he. Never worried about individual stats, he preferred a team victory to how many points he had. His defense was tenacious. Quick as lightning, stealing the ball whenever an opponent's arrogance offered the opportunity, red hair flying to drive down the court and hit the layup.
Never one to complain on the court, and little said about victory or defeat afterwards, Topper led with perseverance, drive, and quiet courage. A calm steady influence for those around him, on and off the court. Never flamboyant in words, he let his action speak louder.
And we know as we tested his equanimity often, baiting him left, right and center. He never wavered, but would often respond about the errors of one’s comments with sharp biting humor. He gave as good as he got. Like Butkus, one of his and our Chicago Bears favorites, Topper took no quarter on or off the court.
We lost touch for a while, as Topper sought greater adventures overseas. Spreading his gospel of unselfish hoops far and wide. He married up, to a Swedish Princess. Suffered some health issues overseas far away from home, and carried on battling as if nothing was the matter. Always going forward in life despite the obstacles in front of him.
We finally caught up when he returned to the States. He had taken on additional challenges spreading his mantra on the professional and community level that b-ball was a team game and each player had a valued role to play.
Colorado and the mountains seemed to suit his soul. He enjoyed climbing steep hills in life. Never complaining about the training required to meet the challenges of being a 50 year old + senior 5,000 meter speed skater champion, even against the Canadians in Banff. Little did we know of these exploits until later on in his life. A humble being, content with meeting his own high standards without the need to brag about his exploits or seek other’s affirmations.
Over dinner in Denver last year, good faith attempts were made to stir him up a bit with adverse commentary on his wayward golf game. While he never took the bait, he let it be known that he could give it out as well as take it. And of course, he said bring it. We never got to bring it on the course again despite his gracious invitations.
Topper was a man of fortitude and courage, of honesty and faith and love. He believed, and so did we in him, that the lessons he could provide the younger were valuable, worth teaching in an age of individualism He devoted his life to being of service to others; many less fortunate than ourselves, in teaching them how to be the best by being of service,,,,, in sports or in life.,,,,, to others.
As a gift of appreciation in friendship and in recognition of his athletic achievements north of the border his Campion mates gave him a stuffed Canadian Moose made in Alberta. ( see photo) after a trip to the lands of snow and ice. In recognition of beating the best up north. Topper resembled a Moose to us, not in size but in Spirit, standing strong, being tenacious, not waylaid by unimportant issues, nor deterred by illness, steady as he goes.
We shall carry Topper on with us and honor him by living in ways that exemplify the best of him, his values, of courage, fortitude, honesty, humility, perseverance and love of family and friends. In that way, he will never leave us and will always be close to our hearts.
Always forward with Topper, to his hoops of life.
“Campion Almighty”
Knights 58- Aquinas 55
God Bless the Nillen family
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