I'm so sorry ...I just found out ....and I ...don't know man ......if it wasn't for Jess Andy and barbie and fred ....I wouldn't be here they helped me thru so much and she will be terribly missed and remembered every day ......one thing she used to write on the mirror at dads was .....don't laugh at me don't call me names ...don't get your pleasure from my pain .....cause in gods eyes were all the same .....and one day we will all have perfect wings ........well hell I hate to break it to all y'all but that girls wings are gonna be brighter and more shinier than any of us!!! Rest in peace sister .....I love u