As far as I recall my family has known the Phillips for some time but I was first introduced to Jerry and LaRose through the Awana Program at Hauser Community Church. LaRose was one of my leaders when I was in elementary school, helping me to learn and recite bible verses. She was kind, methodical, and patient. Jerry was a leader as well and he definitely brought a certain je ne sais quoi to his role. For example, I remember he told us he didn’t have a belly button- as little kids we were quite incredulous- so he lifted up his shirt and showed us a long scar across his abdomen to prove it— that’ll get a lot of elementary schoolers’ attention! I recall a story about a removed appendix…I don’t remember the Bible lesson that night but I remember that experience!

As an adult I was introduced to the Phillips in a new way- seeing Jerry thoughtfully care for LaRose in her final years. One summer I attended a camping trip with my grandmother which was reunion of a bible study group that had been established before I was born and this group of believers still prioritized spending time together- the McSwains, the Phillips, the Mitts, the Hiserotes, the Greigs, the Bakers, and others. Gathered around the fire pit one night as we all ate together I saw Jerry feeding LaRose, patiently spooning one bite at a time and gently cleaning her face with her napkin when she lost control of her dinner. I was struck by how tender and caring he was, working to help her be apart of the group as much as possible.

Although I wish I had been able to know Jerry better it was apparent he was an intelligent man, funny guy, faithful/loving husband, and genuine human being. I will definitely visit Jerry Phillips Reserve in the future and I can’t wait to visit with him and LaRose in heaven. 

Memories of Jerry are very fond ones - he was someone I admired and looked up to. I knew both Jerry and LaRose from their volunteer work at our church when I was a child. I got to know Jerry better when he volunteered to drive my CYIA team all over the place to do Five Day Clubs in the area when I was a teenager. I was struggling with teen acne at the time and Jerry made funny jokes about how it was just due to me drooling in my sleep. I really enjoyed this humor - it actually made me feel less embarrassed to be able to laugh about it. We also had a running joke that I would inherit his car, a nice navy blue Toyota Camry (if memory serves). I certainly liked the car but Jerry driving us around in it made it extra special. 

You could always count on Jerry for kindness, compassion, intellectual humor and stimulating conversation at a good clip! He was generous with his time and his knowledge. I loved how he laughed and squinched up his face when he was ticked by something. Such a lovely person - I am fortunate to have known him. 

My thoughts are with Jerry’s family as they celebrate and honor his life. 💕