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James Robert Stagi passed away as of March 17, 2023. He is survived by his husband Randy, his cat & son Angus. His mother Susie and father Jerry, his sister Scott Razor, sister Pam and Michele, and his recent half-brother, Gerry Gauer. James lived with passion following his love for urban planning which he received his Masters from UC Berkeley. James worked for Metropolitan Transportation Commission for over 15 years, building relationships with not only …

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We're planning a Celebration of Life once the weather is warmer, it will be held around Lake Merritt as Jay loved his neighborhood very much.

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What were Jay's favorite ways to exercise?
Going to the gym. His Peleton. And walking.
Going to the gym. His Peleton. And walking.
Going to the gym. His Peleton. And walking.
What were Jay's favorite local spots?
Lake Chalet.
Lake Chalet.
Lake Chalet.
What causes did Jay care about most?
The world and the people who care about others.
The world and the people who care about others.
The world and the people who care about others.
What was Jay's favorite color?
Blue, like his eyes.
Blue, like his eyes.
Blue, like his eyes.

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Born

1962
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Graduated from high school

1980
Petaluma High
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Graduated from college

2000
San Francisco State University
Urban Studies

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