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Janet L Drzewiecki/tharp

Erie, PA

March 8, 1964 - July 1, 2022

Mar 8, 1964 - Jul 1, 2022

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I'm reaching out today to some of you generous people out there to see if anyone is willing to help me with funeral expenses for my late mother Janet she passed away in July of 22 which she was in the hospital for quite a while she also had kidney failure and seem to be only getting sicker but me and my family were told we had to put $3,000 down and then we would have to come up with 7,000 more in order for it to be paid off I have not worked myself since June of 2020 due to disabilities and we have a very small family I can count them on my hands. And I tried to tell the funeral home that I could give them $150 every two weeks that's $300 a month but they said that was not good enough they would need $500 a month or for it to be paid in full and I personally don't have that kind of money laying around so they said they were putting a lien on all of my assets and applying interest and my mother had no life insurance and died unexpectedly really. And my mother is the one that wanted buried and my brother and sister decided that together we would be able to make payments splitting in three to pay the rest but if it was up to me I would have had to cremate her from the beginning because all I had in my savings was $1,500 and that's what I had to give and the day that my mother died I was so mentally distraught that I was ready to 302 myself the love I have for my mother compares to no one I have been taking care of my mother on the books since I was 18 years old alone and I have no guilt there and I have been helping out since I was 12 years old considering I got death benefits checks from my father who passed away when I was 12. I have had a really really hard life and it seems like I just cannot get a break it almost makes me mentally unstable or uncapable of being okay because now I'm the only one that signed so I guess we know what that means if there is anyone out there that would be so generous to help me put my mother to rest and make it so I'm not feeling so many emotions that make me want to give up please if anyone is out there willing to help any amount even 50 cents thank you and God bless thee Contribute