I just learned of Jim's death.  I am so, so sorry for your loss.  Jim and I dated in college.  We met at a  dorm party in Teter in, I believe, 1979.  He was dazzling smart and funny and I was always enthralled.  We saw each other off and on for several years and he always had a tug on my heart.  But, the last time we were in touch was sometime in the mid-90s and we lost track of each other after that.  I am so saddened to hear of his death.  But, I hope memories can help you through your grief. 

Thunderstruck to hear of Jim's passing just today. Jim was a mentor, coworker, roommate and dear, dear friend. Though we had fallen out of touch, the occasional un-looked for phone call every year or two was always a smile, as are all of my memories of the time we spent together. It's been a LONG time, Nicholas, but you and your dad are on my mind today...

My memories of Jim from high school and college are of a fun, intelligent, caring man. I send my sincere condolences to his family.

I will miss Jim. He was a good dear friend for over 50 years.

My deepest sympathy.  Since I met him in high school, Jim was a lot of fun, especially at Madison.  I always enjoyed talking history with him.  He will be deeply missed.