Memories of James Francis Roche, Jr.

In memory of

James Francis Roche, Jr.

Whitman, MA

August 7, 1937 - January 2, 2022

Aug 7, 1937 - Jan 2, 2022

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Cheryl Joseph

Dear Kerry and Roche family,MY FATHER EDWARD C JOSEPH JR WHO BUILT 162 WINTER ST CAPE COD HOUSE IN WHITMAN AND WAS ON THE ORIGINAL BUILDING CODE COMMITTEE FOR WHITMAN AROUND 1954 WOULD SHOVEL THE SNOW FOR MRS ROCHE WHEN JAMES WAS A LITTLE BOY I KNFW HE WAS UP THERE BUT I NEVER SAW HIM ACCEPT SOMETIME BECAUSE I REMEMBER HIS FACE

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Judith E Beals

One of the things I was always so struck and moved by was Jim's utter loyalty and devotion to Kerry. It seemed so clear that, even after so many years, he was besotted with his beloved Kerry. How rare and beautiful for any man to assume that role - and then there was something so special about the way Jim did it - quietly, in the background, humbly.

What I also know and remember - the mutuality of it. Kerry's profound and deep commitment to Jim, her words of kindness, care and love, bringing him so fully into her life. The devotion was reciprocated in every way.

Truly one of the great love stories of all time. This loss - for all, but 1,000 times more for you, Kerry, is so big that there truly are no words for it. But Jim's love for you endures as strongly as ever - I know it. I hope you are able to hold in close as you move into this hard holiday season without him by your side.

You are so loved by so many of us!

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Kerry Maloney

2014, Duxbury, MA

Jim looking out on Duxbury Harbor

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Kerry Maloney

Jim passed from my arms to God's 10 months ago tomorrow morning at 1:35 AM. In the last few months of his... Read more Jim passed from my arms to God's 10 months ago tomorrow morning at 1:35 AM. In the last few months of his life, this prayer of... Read more Jim passed from my arms to God's 10 months ago tomorrow... Read more

Kerry Maloney

Take, Lord, and receive all my liberty,
my memory, my understanding,
and my entire will,
All I have and... Read more Take, Lord, and receive all my liberty,
my memory, my understanding,
and my entire will,
All I have and call my own.
You have... Read more Take, Lord, and receive all my liberty,
my memory,... Read more

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Carolyn Dittes

Dear Kerry, what another wonderful photo of beloved Jim!  It reminds me of this poem.  Much love, Carolyn
 
My Hereafter by Juanita De Long

Do not come when I am dead 
To sit beside a low green mound. 
Or bring the first gay daffodils 
Because I love you so, 
For I shall not be there. 
You cannot find me there.
I will look up at you from the eyes 
Of little children;
 I will bend to meet you in the swaying boughs 
Of bud-thrilled trees, 
And caress you with the passionate sweep
 Of storm-filled winds;
 I will give you strength in your upward tread 
Of everlasting hills; 
I will cool your tired body in the flow 
Of the limpid river;
 I will warm your work-glorified hands through the glow 
Of winter fire; 
I will soothe you into forgetfulness to the drop, drop, drop
 Of the rain on the roof;
I will speak to you out of the rhymes 
Of the Masters; 
I will dance with you in the lilt 
Of the violin, 
And make your heart leap with the bursting cadence 
Of the organ; 
I will flood your soul with the flaming radiance 
Of the sunrise, 
And bring you peace in the tender rose and gold 
Of the after-sunset.
All these have made me happy; 
They are part of me; 
I shall become part of them.

Dear Kerry, what another wonderful photo of beloved Jim! It reminds me of this poem. Much love, Carolyn... Read more Dear Kerry, what another wonderful photo of beloved Jim! It reminds me of this poem. Much love, Carolyn

My Hereafter by ... Read more Dear Kerry, what another wonderful photo of beloved... Read more

Kerry Maloney

Just beautiful, Carolyn! Thank you for sharing! Just beautiful, Carolyn! Thank you for sharing! Just beautiful, Carolyn! Thank you for sharing!

Liza Stern

Dear Kerry —

I loved learning about Jim. An incredible man, and now I understand why he captured your heart. I just can’t stop thinking about how lucky the two of you were to have found each other, and how lucky he was to have your love as he left this world… and, as grief subsides over time, how lucky you are to have your memories of your shared life.

Please accept my condolences and my love —

Liza

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Susan Hannifin-MacNab

Kerry my friend, I walk with you and beside you... as you have done for me all of these years. I love you very much. And Jim! Shine some of your brilliant light down here upon us. You are one in a million and I love YOU as you continue to love my dear friend. Long live love. xoxox

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Karen Vernamonti

Dear Kerry - your lovingly organized obituary provides a beautiful tapestry of Jim’s generous spirit, his accomplished life and the love and purpose the two of you shared together. A life well lived. A legacy to be admired and to inspire. Jim’s steadfast faith and confidence in the promises of our God - our creator, sustainer and redeemer - encourages me. Into His unfailing arms and everlasting love Jim laughs, lives and loves you still - I care about you and your pain Kerry - virtual hugs to you beautiful one ~

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Timothy Whelsky

Jim was a SAINT among us and gave so much to the Harvard Divinity School community. His gifts were often quiet and humble but deeply meaningful. His warm smile and kindness will stay with us always!

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Bill and Lynne Herman

Dear Kerry we were very saddened to hear of Jim's passing, happy memories, our prayers are with you.
RIP Jim.

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Dan Walters, OSB

Dear Kerry, Sympathy and prayers from Glastonbury Abbey.

Jim is with the angels now. Angel Jim! Bro. Dan, OSB

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Lynne Charland

To Kerry and all the family,
So sorry to hear about the loss of this wonderful man. What a guy! God bless him. May he Rest In Peace . We will keep you in our prayers.
Love , Lynne and Bill

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Harrison Blum

What a tremendous man! I didn’t share so much time or space with Jim, though when I was in his presence I remember it permeating the space, helping me feel wholesome and good and usually a touch inspired just by virtue of being around him. May his memory be a blessing, as his life was to so many.

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