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In lieu of flowers

Please consider a contribution to Donate a park bench in his hometown of Cary, NC.

Background

This park bench will be donated as a permanent place to remember Jay and the impact he made on art and in people's lives. We will place it at a local park overlooking a pond and make the public donation this summer on his birthday. 100% will cover the cost of the donation and placement. Contribute   Right arrow
Funds are being collected and disbursed by Deborah Stephenson, Jacob's mother.

Updates

Update from April 7, 2026

Thank you to everyone who has been so supportive. We have purchased the bench and have some that will be applied to a headstone.

Recent contributions

Tillman Scholars
$1,200.00
Submitted by Megan Malone on Jan. 8, 2026, 1:19 p.m. EST
Anonymous
$100.00
Jan. 6, 2026, 3:15 p.m. EST
Amanda & Dan
$125.00
Submitted by Amanda Hickey on Jan. 3, 2026, 8:41 p.m. EST

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We are praying for you. You are in every sunrise and sunset and on my mind constantly. 

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Lorien & RJ 

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