To the King Family,
I am heartbroken…Ilda has left this world far too soon, but I am sure my sorrow reaches only a fraction of the depth of your grief.
Dr. Ilda’s energy and positivity were ever-present, and she elevated spirits in whatever space she entered.
Ilda and I had a long professional relationship that began when I called her for a reference on a teacher applicant with whom she had consulted and trained. I immediately knew I wanted to work with Ilda! (The teacher got the job, too!)
Through our 15-year collaboration, Ilda improved the diagnostic and teaching of reading skills of dozens of teachers. She was relentless in her mission to ensure the teachers in front of our most vulnerable learners, those with disabilities, had the tools and strategies to change the trajectory of their students’ reading skills so that students’ potential was realized. Ilda was persistent in her pursuit of the latest research and continually updated her practices to reflect brain science and incorporate new findings into her professional work. I, and the teachers with whom I worked, learned more from Dr. Ilda than we ever could have assimilated on our own. She provided practical applications to the science of reading; she helped teachers try and tweak new approaches; she helped principals understand the importance of proper methodology and to support teachers as they explored new strategies. And, just as important as training teachers, she helped the students and parents understand that learning to read was possible.
Ilda gave hope. She gave knowledge. She gave her time and passion to so many.
Ilda was more than a professional colleague; she became a friend. We had many early morning or late evening phone calls to review the work planned or follow-up needed, as Ilda always ensured the work with teachers was complete and could be supported. I was so honored to be included in Ilda’s small group of guests to attend her award ceremony at Lesley University a number of years ago. Ilda was recognized for her work with teachers across the Commonwealth of Massachusetts and the impact her teachings and work had upon countless students! She so deserved this award as I knew firsthand how she had impacted the small corner of the state where I worked.
My heart has been so heavy with sadness since Ilda’s passing and I will forever keep her vibrant spirit in one of my heart’s fondest places.
My deepest sympathies and prayers are extended to Ilda’s family; may you your happiest memories surface over time so that her joy and hopefulness remain in your hearts whenever you think of your wife, mother, and grandmother. I know the grief will also be part of your emotional journey as one cannot help but feel the pain of such a loss.
May the light of Ilda’s spirit forever shine on you all.
Sharon (Lyons) Stewart