I’m shocked but not surprised to learn about the vast accomplishments Gordon achieved throughout his lifetime. I echo the sentiments of others when reflecting on such a humble man, with a quiet confidence, and none of the ego that encourages one to brag or boast. It’s as if he was from a different time, where honor and dignity were soft spoken, implied and earned. 

Gordon was thoughtful and cerebral, and was always more interested in learning about me than talking about himself. 

I’ll fondly remember Katie’s birthday party a few years ago when I met Jackie and Gordon and we chatted UAlbany, our shared Alma mater. 

I will remember Gordon as an example of how to live to a life of purpose and principle. He is an example of what being a better person looks like.

I am eternally grateful for the unconditional love, kindness, and support Gordon showed me these past two decades. Gordon has been a second father to me, and my heart aches for his wife, Jackie, his sons Jefferson and Jordan, his beloved grandchildren Eleanor, Clark, and Alex, his brothers, in-laws, and niece and nephews. His passing marks a deep loss not only for his family and the Binghamton community, but for anyone who ever met Gordon.

In reading his obituary full of academic and professional accomplishments, perhaps what struck me the most was how little he ever spoke of his own achievements. Despite multiple opportunities to leverage his exceptional intelligence to promote himself, Gordon always chose honor, duty, service, and family over everything else. Indeed, his intellect was only outmatched by his thoughtfulness. If you knew Gordon, he undoubtedly showed a genuine interest in what you had to say, and he cared deeply about your success.

Watching Gordon quietly battle cancer for 20 years only further highlighted his exceptional strength of character. He traveled the world. He never missed a family gathering. He welcomed three grandchildren. He attended countless sporting and athletic events. He never complained. Gordon only ever put the needs and wellbeing of others first, even if it inconvenienced him. Ultimately, he faced his death with all the courage and resolve he repeatedly demonstrated throughout his beautiful, full life.

My children and I will miss their Grandbop. I am heartbroken that he doesn’t get to spend more time with his grandbabies, attend more Yankees games, enjoy authentic Italian cuisine, win more golf tournaments, and cheer on the Binghamton Bearcats. Gordon was truly the kindest, most selfless, patient, and thoughtful man I’ve ever met. I am so grateful for every moment, every memory, and every lesson he shared with me and my family.

Jackie,

To say that I was shocked to hear of Gordon's passing is certainly an understatement. Of course, I had no idea that he was battling cancer and that you and your family were on that journey with him. I last saw him briefly as I was leaving his law firm when I was handling my mom's estate in 2006.  I saw his name in the elevator  or hall and I went back to see if it was really him.  He was the same person I knew from East Junior and but his story showed that he was so much more.  I always thought of him as a golden boy, the only one I had met at that time, and I don't know if I ever felt that way ever again.   Please accept my condolences and extend them to your family.

Warren

Jackie, Jordan, Jefferson and family, 

We were truly sorry to hear that Gordon passed. Words cannot express the gratitude we have for all the help Gordon gave us. 

Gordon was a great guy. We  will never forget him. 

With much respect and sorrow, 

Sue and Steve Williams