In the quiet corners of my heart, there exists a memory of Uncle Fred that resonates with the very essence of why we are here, living this beautiful life. He was a man of few words, but the words he chose were deliberate. And so was he. Deliberate in being a good person. Among the multitude of cherished moments, one memory stands out above the rest, painting a vivid picture of the man he was to me. :)
Every year while growing up, our family embarked on THE BEST summer trips to Lake Powell. He possessed a unique gift for finding meaning in the simple joys of nature, and he shared this gift with my sisters and me. He would take us on long walks along the red rock sandstone, hunting for arrowheads. I remember him finding a few but we were all mostely there for the excitement of finding one ourselves.
In those days, Fred patiently taught me the art of catching fish, a skill that extended far beyond the waters of Lake Powell. With his gentle guidance, I learned not just about fishing but also about patience and the profound connection between humans and nature. He instilled in me a sense of comfort around horses, a bond that has remained even now at the age of 43. These are huge life skills in my opinon and I got them from my Uncle Fred!
There is a moment that forever sits with me which was at my wedding. He approached me with a whisper, his eyes filled with tears and told me something that touched me so deeply. He said that my Mom was there with us, a presence felt, not just in spirit, but in every moment, every laughter, and every tear shed that day. His words were not mere utterances; they were a testament to the profound love that binds our family, transcending time and space.
I actually feel so happy for him knowing that he has left his body transcending into a part of everything that surrounds us. He lives on in the rustle of leaves, the air we breath and in the leaves of the trees. Fred was a living embodiment of being a good person and his legacy lives on through the love and wisdom he shared. His memory is a guiding light, urging us to cherish the simple joys of life, find solace in nature's embrace, and embrace the boundless love that unites our family. Love you all :)))