What I learned from Ellen? How to live in gratitude & joy! She always had a smile on her face, & enjoyed every day & every conversation. A smile is the best cosmetic, she always looked the same to me, for 50 years!
She taught us by example so many things, like to listen more than talk! Everyone has a story to tell. Keep learning & taking classes, it keeps ur brain young.
When she was hit by a car (at Whole Foods) in her 90s, she worked hard with PT. Eventually Ellen was strong & no longer needed her walker. She taught us never to give up.
I never heard Ellen complain (even when she should). We were at lunch once, in the sun, she wore a sweater & got heat exhaustion! I noticed she got quiet, & had to take steps to cool her down! She didn't want to bother about it.
Ellen loved nature, knowing that it refreshes the soul. Being in nature, loving plants & animals is healing. She traveled w/ Sierra Club, & had adventures alone, but met new friends everywhere she went. She loved our beautiful planet.
Ellen was vegetarian & loved animals, but didn't proselytize, & would go to regular restaurants & "find something to eat." I have fish on occasion, but may still lecture folks on meat (Forks Over Knives documentary, anyone?). Her way is kinder.
Ellen is still teaching me by her kind & loving example. I will always have her as a model on how to age gracefully, & live life fully, & how to love.