My sister was tough-as-nails, no-holds-barred, balls-to-the-wall.
She stuck to her guns and could argue like a Philadelphia lawyer but always followed shortly after with "you know I love you girl".
At the end of the day and ultimately we're here signature phrases.
I was so glad I visited for a few weeks in January 2020, before the covid lockdown! She took me to every one of her favorite restaurants. At Phil's, she made me order the ciopinno. (I usually order the least expensive thing on the menu, even though Ellen grabbed the check every time). I don't like cioppino. Never have. But I ate it and yummed it up because Ellen couldn't. She was an unassuming generous person and never asked for or expected anything in return.
She always had wise advice and let you know if you were being stupid.
I will miss her so very much. I can't believe she's gone.
Sister Paula
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It was a blessing to have Ellen come into my life 15 years ago initially as a work colleague, but which quickly blossomed into a close personal friendship. When we had the opportunity to get together in person, the conversation and laughs went long into the evening and it was the same when could only get together by phone. She spoke often about her family and I along with my wife and children were fortunate to meet both her parents and uncle during one of her annual visits to Las Vegas. I will fondly remember her Southside Chicago accent, the no holds barred on any topic and her take on everything from popular life to politics (and the Randy Rainbow videos!). While gone she will never be forgotten and every time I hear the word Duh!, I'll know it's Ellen just checking in.
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Ellen brought endless laughter and encouragement into my life. Forever etched in my memory are 20 years of Christmas Eve dinners at my house. An endless pot of seafood cioppino with Jules, Shirley, Sharon and friends enjoying a messy meal & conversation.
I’ll miss Ellen forever… your GCG friend
Roseann
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I loved my cousin Ellen. From the time we met as children in California, palled around as teenagers in Rogers Park, and even when she moved to California later, I always felt loved and supported by her. I will miss her.
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Ellen and I met in grammar school, and I'm grateful to say our friendship continued. She always made me laugh with her sarcasm, black humor, and facial expressions. John and I spent Passover Seders with her family after my parents died. We learned how to read Tarot cards and took psychic classes together, and shared tons of fun times, and she was there for me in difficult times. Ellen introduced me to Shimp deJong, Rice Balls from Manzos, and Calamari. It was always an experience to eat out with her. I already miss her, and can hear her voice saying "Miss me?" and laughing. Rest in peace, Ellen, and now you can do all the things you couldn't do in your body. Our spirits will meet again.
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Ellen shall always be the sweet, caring, giving, generous, and wonderful cousin that many wish they had. We will miss her cheerful smile, and realistic views of the world; She told it like she saw it. Gone long before her time, she made the world a better place.
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Ellen is a treasure, and her friendship and love made us all better people. There is definitely a reason why all her photos have her big beautiful smile! Her humor, kindness and willingness to help anyone at anytime will be so very missed. I feel blessed to have known her and to be able to see the beautiful light from her soul shine brightly over the years. I will miss you always.
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