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Ellen and I met at the slumber party of a mutual friend in 6th grade.  We hit it off immediately. It was the start of a beautiful friendship. 🥲🥰. I wonder what she’d have to say about my torn ACL, accomplished on the ski slope, and how she would advise me to proceed?? That’s one thing we never got to do together. Ski! I didn’t start until my early 30’s. Not sure when Ellen started skiing, but I know she was probably better at it than I was. Because she was absolutely fearless. Would love to hear from anyone who skied with our Ellen.❤️❤️❤️
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I’m not sure where this photo was taken, but likely Austin. Sometime in the 80’s…. Going through old photos today, I came across it. Happily! I don’t even remember it. Probably taken by my mother. She was a very good photographer. As was Ellen!❤️
Vivian and my son Cruise were classmates from kindergarten through 5th grade. Ellen was an inspiration- one of the most determined people I know and one of the most generous in spirit. After learning I had started playing my guitar more often, she sent me a classical guitar book. She was always game for attending a SLAC performance, she gushed about my son's violin playing- she gave and gave. She inspired me in part to return to school and earn my masters. I will treasure her memory always.
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Vivian and my son Cruise were classmates from kindergarten through 5th grade. Ellen was an inspiration- one of the most determined people I know and one of the most generous in spirit. After learning I had started playing my guitar more often, she sent me a classical guitar book. She was always game for attending a SLAC performance, she gushed about my son's violin playing- she gave and gave. She inspired me in part to return to school and earn my masters. I will treasure her memory always.
My heart goes out today (and every day) to Vivian, who is missing her mother, who loved her so fiercely, to Ann and George who lost their sister, to George and Kay, whose loss of a child is unimaginable for me. I also hold in my heart all of her friends, whose lives she touched surely as she touched mine.  I try to keep Ellen in mind when I start my day. I think, “What would Ellen do??”
Thinking of our sweet, brilliant, vivacious friend today…. Missing her so much - not just today, but every day- , remembering the fun times we had as kids, tweens, teens, and adults. When I go someplace special, someplace beautiful, I take her with me. Always.❤️❤️❤️😔

Ellen and I were pregnant at the same time.  I met her when she joined the Utah Breastfeeding Coalition. She was a legal advocate but also a mother.  

Shortly after she began nursing school and o didn’t see much of her for a while.  Then one day the manager of the postpartum unit told me she had hired a nurse who she thought would be great but it kind of made her nervous because she was also a lawyer.  “Is her name Ellen!” I nearly shouted “she will be fantastic”. Fantastic doesn’t describe her.  There aren’t enough words to describe Ellen. 

Smart, courageous, kind, beautiful, compassionate- those are a few.  I loved her smile  I loved her humor I loved her passion   I didn’t get to work with her often but I always knew that she was taking care of the patients in way that would have their best interest and that she would be the kind of nurse who they will remember forever   

I miss you Ellen! 

 

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Provided to me by Deborah Halperin, of Ellen during her junior year abroad
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Ellen was a nursing scholarship recepient. She was hand selected amongst nursing students to give remarks during the College of Nursing Scholarship luncheon. Below is a copy of her speech: 
 Good afternoon. I'm Ellen and I'm delighted to be here today on behalf of the College of Nursing. We want to express our heartfelt thanks to all the wonderful individuals and families who have chosen to support the College of Nursing. We are all so grateful to all of you for the financial aid that you have provided so generously to advance our educational efforts.

I came to the College of Nursing through a circuitous path: I first came through the University in the College of Law. After graduation I worked downtown as a litigator for about a decade. My life changed dramatically in 2004 when I gave birth to my daughter, Vivian, at the U Hospital. Vivian's delivery was difficult because, as a tiny fetus, she had tied her umbilical cord in a knot--a one in 2000 possibility. After an easy pregnancy I presented at the U Hospital with serious comlications that were immediately resolved by a wonderful team of obstetricians, surgeons, respiratory therapists and nurses, nurses, nurses. Without the combined effort of all those individuals working as a smooth, well-functioning team it is likely that my daughter would have died. Instead today she is a healthy, happy toddler.

Becoming a mother opened my eyes to the world and my place in it in an entirely new way. After much "soul searching" I decided to change the direction of my career to enter the health care sector. I'm now in my second semester of the U's Accelerated Nursing Program, which allows people with previous degrees to earn a bachelors nursing degree following completion of a rigorous 4 semester, 16 month program. This is an exciting and challenging time in my life, and I want to say an especial "thank you" to the family of Susan Whittaker, who funded my scholarship. The Whittaker scholarship means so much to me, not only in terms of financial support for my course of study, but also in terms of having a direct connection to a wonderful woman who was herself a highly skilled nurse.

Sadly, Susan died far too early of cancer at the age of 54. Life isn't fair, and we all know that. But not one of us has to accept the status quo. We all have the chance to tip the scales in favor of increased justice, compassion and service through the choices we make each day. Like Susan, we all have the opportunity each and every day to make the world a better place by being here to help, or comfort, or befriend our fellow beings. Thank you to Susan, who I never had the opportunity to know, for all the good she has done and will continue to do through her institition of this scholarship. And thanks to you all for all the kindness, generosity and encouragement that all of you have shown to all of us. We look forward to caring for all of you, when the time comes. Thank you. 
 Friend and classmate, 
JJ Flores

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