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Edward Oscar Loder

Port Jefferson Station, NY
October 4, 1923 - December 24, 2021
Oct 4, 1923 - Dec 24, 2021
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Ten years ago I asked grandpa to tell his love story. Listen here. 
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Cousin Ed's smile indicated t…
Cousin Ed's smile indicated the size of his heart and spirit.
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I loved Ed's laugh and the love he had for Phyllis. I loved listening to their love story and secret romance. They were involved in all the activities we had to offer. Always together ❤ 
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The King and the Queen
2017, Port Jefferson, NY, USA
The King and the Queen — with Ed Loder and Phyllis Loder
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Melissa Loder
Dec. 27, 2021, 5:25 p.m. EST
2017, Long Island, New York, USA
Here's a link of Grandma and Grandpa renewing their vows from their anniversary party <3  https://www.facebook.com/roge…
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We were saddened to hear of the passing of Ed Loder. Ed was a long time member of VFW Post 3054 and very much appreciated and respected for all of his involvement. He will be missed. 
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Grandma and Grandpa at Charis…
2012, Rochester, NY, USA
Grandma and Grandpa at Charisse's wedding
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Evelyn’s first birthday
2015, Pocono Pines, PA, USA
Evelyn’s first birthday
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England, UK
Grandma described grandpa as kind of a show off in these days, I think this picture really shows it.
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During our visit last month to see grandma and grandpa, Jeff and brought all of the kids.  The kids were getting a little restless in the apartment, so I suggested that Jeff take them outside while we went to the dining room for their lunch. Grandpa was drinking his coffee when he looked out the window to see Jeff wrangling the kids with Molly on his shoulders, Samantha in his arms and holding hands with Evelyn. Grandpa exclaimed with pure joy, “Ha, he said, look at that guy with all of those kids, he must be giving his wife the day off!” I’ll always remember that laugh. 
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— with Phyllis Loder
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Created with love by Melissa Loder (Edward's granddaughter), Charisse Loder, Nicki Loder and Edward Loder (Edward's son).
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