Dylan always listened intently, regardless of the conversation topic, he listened to every word and always had a question or a comment to follow up. His responses were never the common and unenthusiastic "cool" or "how fun" I often heard from uninterested adults growing up. Dylan made me feel heard and appreciated, even from a young age I always felt like I could talk about something and have a genuine conversation with him. I miss our conversations at breakfast, sitting at the end of the table together talking about anything from an old story of his to my latest artistic endeavor, there was always something to talk about. I miss and love you, Dill. <3
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I'm sorry for all the people who never knew him.
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2004, Sheraton Palace Hotel, San Francisco
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2003, Ginny & Jamie’s house
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2002, Ginny & Jamie’s House
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A truly unique and wonderful human being. Rarely do I go very long without being reminded of a bit of the wit and wisdom Dylan so appropriately "sprinkled" throughout the memories and conversations we shared over the last 40 years or so. Rest in peace brother.
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God bless Dylan and his family and may God receive him with open hands
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I was so sorry to hear of Dylan’s passing - hands down one of the funniest people I’ve known and had the pleasure of spending Monday through Friday with for years. I remember our then small team felt like SNL, and often our jokes would often wind up as sketches on SNL. Dylan would joke that Lourne Michaels had us bugged. Though I haven’t seen him in years, his absence from this world is immensely felt. My heart is with Eileen and everyone, family and friends, anyone who knew and loved him. He was special! - Liz
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My best memories of Dylan is having hin my classes and he was so dam funny. Always made a bad day into a good day. My deepest condolences to the family.
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Hello everyone, we are getting together a video in Dylan’s memory. Please feel free to share photos or videos. You can post on here or send it to me directly on Facebook. Thank you.
Sydney
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I was Dylan’s teacher for first and second grades at Eldridge School in Hayward, CA.
I remember him as being smart and curious, full of energy. He was very interested in discovering how things work - how do rockets go up into space, what happened to the dinosaurs, why is the sky blue? And although we didn’t cover many of those subjects in first and second grades, Dylan was fortunate to have a mom, Faye, who encouraged him to pursue his interests and worked with him on many projects and experiments during non-school hours.
Faye’s patience and devotion helped Dylan to keep his sense of wonder about the world, develop a great sense of humor, and learn enough in school to get by while learning a lot about things not usually taught there.
Dylan went on to graduate from high school, have a successful IT job, develop a lasting relationship with his junior high sweetheart and enjoy the life he built with that sweetheart, Eileen.
A couple of years ago, Dylan’s name appeared in my list of possible new friends on FaceBook. I decided to reach out, and after some warnings from him about what I might encounter on his FB page, we became friends. I truly enjoyed hearing about his life now, reading his thoughts about many topics, including current events, musicians he followed, movies, and such. I could see that he had developed into a thoughtful and insightful young man, and I was proud to have been a tiny part of that so many years ago.
Karen (Meldrum) Lamb
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