Dylan was truly a great friend and always knew how to make me laugh. I knew when we first met in Nashville that he would be a friend for life. What impacted me the most about our friendship was how much he truly cared about what was going on in my life and his support meant the world. Dylan and I were able to have more than just surface level conversations, and I always enjoyed meeting up with him to either play pickleball, grab dinner, or just talk on the phone to catch up. 

My wife and I offer our sincerest condolences to the Dantzig family. Dylan was a wonderful person, and we will both miss him dearly.

Ryan and Caitlin Bolme

My deepest condolences to the Dantzig family. Dylan made a big impact in my life. Friends like him are hard to find. Dylan was the first real friend that I had in Nashville, he was like a brother to me, really. Always there for you even in the hardest times. He was brilliant, funny (lots of crazy stories), down to earth, and open book with life advice. He was a kind soul. He was always trying to help people in need in addition to being social & making new friends. This is a very hard lost, he was so special to all of us he made an impact on the lives of many people.

I’ll never forget him, he will be in my heart forever.  Love you, bestie. 

Xoxo

Dylan made a very profound impact on my life and the lives of many others, more than he realized. From days out on the golf course to nights out in Nashville and Buenos Aires, our friendship will always be something that I will cherish.

Dylan was one of the smartest people I've ever met -- he could give a college lecture on economics, geology, history, and philosophy. He was also one of the best golfers, bowlers, and cornhole players I've ever seen!

But most importantly, what everyone will remember about Dylan is his kind soul. He was a very empathetic man who cared deeply about his friends, family, and country. He was a devoted follower of Jesus Christ who wanted nothing more than to serve Him and share His love with others. Despite his own personal struggles, he still made ample room in his heart for the struggles of others. And for that he will always be an inspiration to me.

Praying for you all. Love and the peace of Christ,

Sanjay Ravindra

Brian & Melissa,

We apologize for not being able to attend Dylan's service in person, but wanted to make sure you knew that our love and thoughts are deeply with you today. We know it will be a tough day for you, family and friends, but also hoping you are overwhelmed by the love, passion and amazing experiences that will be shared with you today.

Love,

Sean & Maggie

Often you never hear from people that are thinking about your family in a time of great grief and emotional pain and the impact that your loss has had on people far away and seemingly disconnected.  On behalf of my wife and I we wanted to send our deep condolences.   Your son Dylan was our son Alexander Robau's best friend in Nashville and the news of his death has had a big impact on us.  They enjoyed golf immensely and would frequently go out together.  Alexander cherished Dylan's friendship and was deeply impacted by the loss of his friend.

We are deeply saddened by the loss of Dylan, Alexander's best friend.   We are grieving with you and thinking of your family.  Our son is our emissary to your celebration of life.  He will be in attendance tomorrow.  

I read Dylan's interests, and I only wish I would have known him since he shares many of the interest I personally have.  Our deep and sincere condolences.  I wish I would have known Dylan better.   We heard wonderful things from Alexander.

We are thinking about Dylan and your family.

On behalf of the Robau family.

Emilio J. Robau, 

Alexander Robau's father.

It gives me deep sorrow knowing that Dylan is not with us anymore. My deepest condolences to the Dantzig family - whom his abundant love for was so clear. Reading everyone’s stories and memories of Dylan is bittersweet. I feel lucky that I got to know and experience the same caring, friendly, and curious person that so many of you did as well. But it is a tragedy to lose a young man like himself too soon 

I had the pleasure of being Dylan’s neighbor for many years. I wasn’t expecting much community as I was living out of my school district, but it so happened that Dylan was too. He was the first friendly smile I was met with in my new neighborhood. I was lucky enough to get an invitation to his weekly ritual of walking to school on Amador’s Wednesday AM late-start. On that first hang, he introduced me to the donut holes from Heritage Donut Shop on our way to school. From there many hangs in his backyard and walks around the neighborhood ensued. 

It was easy to see how intelligent, thoughtful and caring Dylan was as a person. I always enjoyed our conversations and appreciated his friendship. He went out of his way to facilitate special moments for his friends and create a community around him. It’s not only grieving him, but also the future he would have had and all the goodness he would have spread.

I am glad that so many people knew the special person that he was however. Dylan, along with his family that he leaves behind are in my thoughts 🤍

I met Dylan in middle school and he always seemed like a nice kid to be around. We both went to high school together and would chat sometimes. Later after high school we kept in touch, talking about music, life, goals, etc. Dylan was always curious about what I was up to, and we’d always end our conversations with “let’s grab a drink sometime bro!” I ran into him at work one day back in the summer of 2023, sometime after he moved to Nashville. He visited Pleasanton for a bit, and told me all about Nashville. He spoke very highly of living in Nashville and about starting his own business in stocks. But what sticks in my memory of us talking was when he told me about a party he went to, and met someone who was an artist. But this person wasn’t a drawing or a painting artist, they were a musician. So while that person was telling Dylan about their art, he just asks “oh you’re an artist? Cool! What do you draw?” 🤣🤣🤪that person replied with “no silly I’m a musician!!” We both belly laughed so loud it echoed throughout the store we were in. 

I’ll miss you buddy. My condolences to your family. 

I feel so fortunate to have known and spent time with Dylan over the years. It was always a pleasure to run into him - whether at your home or walking around Pleasanton! He had such a sharp mind and he had incredible knowledge when it came to ALL things.  He was never shy about sharing his perspective with politics either! I had a chance to sit down with him and go over accounting for his new firm together..  It was a small moment, but one that I now hold close. His intelligence, curiosity, and presence left a mark on everyone who knew him. He will be deeply missed and as you know we are so sorry for your loss.  The Keenan family is here for you all and we will always remember Dylan fondly.

xoxo - with much love

Hi Brian and Melissa,

I am so sorry for your loss, my deepest condolences.  I can only imagine the heart ache and pain that you are feeling with your son's passing.  I am sure our Lord will continue to comfort you in this difficult time and know that my family and I are praying for you and your family.  If I can be of help with anything, please let me know.

God Bless

Paul Santero

619-507-9294

I met Dylan during my very first year at Saint Mary’s, in the investment club. He immediately stood out to me dressed in full business attire, sleeves rolled up, passionately discussing intricate investment strategies as if he was born to do it. I was just learning the basics, and here was Dylan breaking down how gold and silver prices fluctuated around election season. I had to know more, I introduced myself after that first meeting, and from that moment on we were friends.

We started sitting together at meetings, then grabbed drinks and dinner after one, and that was the beginning of a friendship that grew fast. Through Dylan, I was introduced to a world of passions, each one reflecting a unique piece of who he was.

He took me crabbing beneath the Golden Gate, where we’d haul in our catch and go home to prepare a feast, complete with sauces we’d invent. He showed me the thrill of rock and gem hunting, spending full days exploring beaches in search of treasures. We’d visit Pacific Grove, cruise along the 17 Mile Drive, and turn each trip into an adventure (with lots of gems found along the way!).

Dylan had a quiet competitiveness, especially in bowling, tennis, and cornhole. It was so fun when I would get to watch his cornhole tournaments, I’d just watch and cheer but when we played together, I’m pretty sure he held back just a little to let me have my moments. We’d spend late nights playing tennis at Saint Mary’s, pushing each other to keep going just one more set. Other nights, he’d break out his bartending skills and let me try his latest concoction, always creative, always strong. Karaoke, pool at the Roundup, and spontaneous late-night cookie-baking sessions became a regular occurrence.

Looking back, I’m overwhelmed with gratitude for all the moments we shared in Moraga. He was a true friend who was loyal, curious, hilarious, and extremely generous with his time and energy. I wish we had more time so we could’ve made more memories.

But the ones we made, I’ll carry them on and think back on them fondly. Dylan, you were a great friend and will not be forgotten.