It is with heavy hearts that we announce the peaceful passing of Douglas David OBrien, age 77, on Oct. 17, 2024. Born on Valentine's Day Feb. 14, 1947 to the late Alberta Zolyn OBrien Gutowski, leaving a void that will be hard to fill

Douglas was a man of warmth, wit, compassion and caring humor, he was fondly known as "Grumpy" to his grandchildren and "OB:" to his friends.

Doug brought light to all who knew him, he leaves behind his loving wife, Denise Goodman OBrien, of 55 years, His cherished daughter Jennifer Ashton his son-in-law Phil Ashton his precious grandchildren Nicole, Emma and Logan Ashton, his caring brother Daniel OBrien and 2 sister-in-laws Beverly and Shirley OBrien. He also leaves behind his "Grand Boxers", Drax and Loki, who loved to give him kisses and sit on his lap. Doug is predeceased by his brother, Francis OBrien. His kind heart and funny anecdotes will be dearly missed by all his nieces and nephews

Douglas worked for the Department of Defense and retired with the rank of sergeant. He was nominated "policeman of the year" because of a hostage situation of which everyone came out unharmed.

Doug may not have loved traditional exercise but he enjoyed his daily walks, he had a fondness for simple pleasures, like spending time with his family and his fellow Veteran Brothers.

Per Doug's wishes he was cremated and a memorial service will be held at the Florida Memorial Cemetery in Bushnell, Fl on Tuesday Nov 12, 2024 at 11am. They ask that you only arrive 15 mins prior to the service.

In lieu of Flowers, donations can be made to where Dad got a lot of care from the VA here (Florida – James A. Haley Veterans’ Hospital)

https://www.va.gov/tamp.../wo…

or (Dementia with Lewy Bodies Organization) at:

https://www.lbda.org/donate

With Doug's passing we are reminded of his caring nature and unwavering love for his family, Live is too short

"A poem for Dementia, Author unknown, it fits Doug to a tee.

When I am older

I might not remember

I might get confused

and I might lose my temper

There may be times

when I don't know your name

because it is trapped

locked away in my mind

Thought it will hurt

to think I could forget you

offer me smiles

and hold my hand

Talk of adventures

we had long ago

show me photos

of people I know

Your voice and your words

might just be the key

that opens the door

that unlocks it for me

Dementia might take away

all that I know

just trust

that deep down inside

I'll Remember

That I am Loved

May we carry Doug's lessons and spirit with us, and may he rest in peace, till we meet again, we will always love and hold you close in our hearts

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