Doris, my dear sister. I miss you so much and my love for you will always be in my heart forever. You were kind hearted, funny, loved your laugh and always willing to help someone. Wish we had lived closer to each other, but visiting with you was a joyous occasion and memories I will cherish. I remember growing up in Artesia where playing baseball in the street was fun. You loved animals as I remember your first dog. You didn't like drying dishes, as the silverware would never be dry. Ha! Ha! I get emotional thinking about you, but God is helping me cope. "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me." I will see you again in heaven. Rest in Peace my dear sister.
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Mom -
Where do I start! It’s been 8 weeks since we lost you and it still seems unreal and just a horrific bad dream.
I know Sandy, the kids and I didn’t go see you since you moved up to Clovis and I apologize for that. We are so grateful that you moved down south 11 years ago or so to be near 3 of your grandchildren! I know the last 2 years in Menifee weren’t the best as your health declined , you were lonely and there were no more young grandchildren to take care of.
I know how much you loved taking care of your grandchildren and great grandchildren - that was what made you happy! Melanie, Ryan and Emily love and miss you so much!
I think about you everyday and often get emotional out of nowhere. So many things remind me of you…..seeing people walk their dogs, hearing the sound of one of the kids getting a cookie out of the bag, chili beans (thank you for giving Sandy your recipe), wooden spoons (haha), flowers/plants, and the color purple!
You were such a strong woman, you raised 3 kids by yourself for many years - takes a special person to do that!
One thing that I always looked forward to was the annual Raider Christmas ornament - every year for as long as I can remember 😃
I know you will be watching over all of us and will guide us down the right path!
I love and miss you so much and will try and make you proud as I continue to go through this journey we call life.
By the way, I will have an extra cookie every night just for you 😉
Love Always,
Ryan
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I hadn’t seen or talked to Doris in a very long time. I am saddened to hear of her passing. When I now think of the memories, I think of the laughter. There was always lots of laughter when she was around. May she rest in peace! 😇
Prescilla
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Doris, the last few years were good with you although I only saw you occasionally, usually at Ryan & Sandy’s. I know the grandkids meant the world to you and you were always there for them. You are now with God and our families and friends. Bob
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Thank you mom for giving me life. I never imagined that you wouldn't be here. Thank you for teaching me how to stand on my own two feet and to always be able to take care of myself, independently. I am so handy, know how to spot a good deal, and make killer mashed potatoes and fudge, because of you. I will always remember your saying: Be frugal where you can but never be frugal when it comes to mattresses or shoes - you're either lay down or standing on your feet! Oh, and only floss the ones you wanna keep - I say that to myself every night before bed as I force myself to floss.
I love you, Mom. I know you will be watching over us.
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