Luanne, My condolences for your loss.  My dad would talk about aunt Pat years ago when she still could speak with him, but more recently it was too upsetting for him and I would not ask about her unless he did.  Last time I saw aunt Pat was when my dad brought you both East, which everyone really enjoyed!  We were in Palm Springs,  Fall of 2018, but not sure if I knew you lived there at the time otherwise would have tried to visit.  Been too long, come East sometime..