I met Scotty a few short years ago in the waiting room at St Mary’s hospital while waiting on his beloved bride, Gaverne, to come out of surgery. For lack of words, I found him to be very fascinating. I’d never met a person to be so forward, friendly, genuine, and with such a deep passion to share God’s word. Our friendship was fast growing and God appointed. He began teaching me on Wednesday mornings over the phone for a few hours starting in 2021. He would greet each of my phone calls with, “Good morning, Vietnam”, We shared life, family, politics, music, but most importantly God. Scotty was many things to me: a friend, a mentor, a brother in Christ, a father figure, a confidant, a leader, a visionary, a proud US veteran, and a reflection of Jesus Christ. He desired to teach God’s word up until he went home to be with the Lord, and that he did.
I will miss our deep conversations and discussions over God’s powerful word. I will miss hearing him holler into the next room, “Hey Gav.”. I will miss his corrections, even when it stung a little, and the love and teachings that he selflessly dedicated to me each week. He gave me a gift of time, teaching, and knowledge that can never be repaid but will never be forgotten. I hope to one day be as dedicated as him and give selflessly to others as he has me.
Scotty loved to give. If I gave him a bookmark, he’d send me a book. If I gave him a book, he’d send me two and a poster. If I bout lunch for his wife, he’d send me a box of steaks from Omaha Steaks. You could never out give this man. The day of his death Gaverne said, “It’s a good thing we are not rich, or Scotty would have just given it all away anyway.” Gaverne, Scotty was rich in ways that others couldn’t even imagine. Money can not purchase the knowledge, wisdom, and love that this man possessed. His greatest assets were and are his family. He spoke so proudly of each one of you kids. He frequently informed me of the grandkids’ activities and how he wished his health would let him travel to see them more. He loved to share when someone purchased a new home, got a new job/promotion, or a grandchild got accolades in school. You all brought him great joy. He would make jokes like how he always must find everything for Gaverne. Then, He’d do that little Scotty giggle, I will miss that giggle. We both knew he’d be lost without her. He would always refer to her as his “Loving Bride”. Their love is a testament to God’s word.
Scotty and his computer were in a weekly battle. I’m not sure that Satan didn’t have his pass code. His notes wouldn’t load, the internet would shut off, or he’d have 50 tabs open at once. By the grace of God, we always managed. In our last conversation just a few days before he went to be with our Lord and Savior, he was concerned about finishing the last three chapters of our Leviticus study. His focus was never on his own declining health and physical pain, it was focused on God, God’s Kingdom, and witnessing to everyone in his path.
Scotty and I didn’t always see eye to eye on every biblical matter, but I knew better than to debate the master debater. I loved the few moments that he would say, “The student is teaching the teacher”, as he would ask me to repeat my findings so he could add them to his notes. Those were proud moments for both of us. Although we agreed on most things, there is one thing I didn’t and never will agree on, black licorice. Scotty, If God has a stash of that for me in Heaven, you go ahead and help yourself to my portion.
Thank you to the Scott family and especially Gaverne for sharing Scotty with me. I know his time with me was time away for you. I’m a better person thanks to him. I will forever be grateful for every moment. Until we meet again.
Your Sister in Christ,
Tangee Lee