This is the worst news ever. Such a loss. Dan was such a great friend and I learned so much from him. I met Dan when I was in high school and took a job at Don’s Rental. At first, I thought Dan might be a scary guy. He came looking all stern with his Harley, the leather jacket and gruff voice. I’m sure he could get scary, but I never saw it. He was the nicest, most patient and warmest guy ever. You could really see that in his relationship with Whitney and “Little Mac”. He just loved them. Little Mac was too small at the time, but Whitney used to come work with us. He called her his “Little Baywatch Beauty” and man, he just adored her.
We worked hard, but we had fun. I remember making Mr Trailerball Man by painting a trailer ball, using orange twine for hair and drawing on a face. We just laughed about that a few months ago. Whitney might have helped us make that, I don’t remember. We hoped that Don’s vision was poor enough that he wouldn’t be able to see it.
Whenever I came home from college, I’d go see Dan. I can still hear his voice saying “Hey Sam…” super loud although he wasn’t yelling, he could just talk loud. He always rip me about how soft I was becoming because my hands were soft from not working at Don’s. I still remember trying to find a tough guy excuse for it, I won’t say what I came up with here.
Dan helped me stay calm when we worked with this jerk named TJ in early 2000. If I ever found anyone that didn’t get along with Dan, I knew right away they were probably a chump since to me Dan was so great.
Dan was so patient and seemed to get a kick out of all the things I screwed up at Don’s. He’d come over all quiet and just ask questions calmly about the predicament I was in. Then he’d show me how to fix it all. The long leash he gave me gave me room to fail and try things. I learned so much because of that. I knew when I messed up, so he never rode me about it, he just taught me how to fix it. I’m a better father, brother, and friend for the time I spent with Dan.
When I saw “RIP Dan” up on the sign at Don’s I figured it must be some other Dan. I text Dan to ask what was going on and I never got a text back. If you have a buddy that you haven’t seen in a while, go see them, you might not get another chance.
RIP Dan.