Kindred Spirits.

I am named after Dan's mother; Dan was my 1st cousin, which makes  Chris and me forever cousins-of-the-heart.  He chronicled the colorful Fallon family history with the skill of a born scholar; I hope someone assembles his extraordinary research into share-able form.  After the death of his aunt--my mother--left me with no immediate family, he and Chris flew me to Santa Fe for a visit that swept us from that fabled opera to a native celebration, from fabulous galleries to five-star restaurants. He said, as I was leaving, "We want you to know, you have a family."  I hold that memory close...

Dan Fallon shared all of my early life, growth and becoming with me nd, like our Mother, has been an a steady and strong supporter of my artwork and career throughout my lifetime.  It is solely because of him that I have continued to produce work ad with the support of my children and spouse I will be showing work in Chelsea this coming winter January31-March 31 2026 at the Amsterdam—Whitney Gallery 10001 NYC, Dan will be be at my side, though you will not see him; I am still in a flood of tears believing he and my Mom are responsible for this opportunity.

Dan Fallon was the best Dean I had in my 42 years as an academic, 32 of those at Texas A&M University (TAMU). Dan arrived in 1984 as Dean of the College of Liberal Arts, a College that was founded as recently as 1968. TAMU was about Business, Engineering, and Agriculture. There were some among the alumni who wondered why such a college even existed. Dan was trained as an experimental psychologist and those of us in the Psychology Department and other social sciences were thrilled that one of us would be shaping the future of our College. Dan supported the social sciences, but he put as much, in truth, more emphasis in the arts and humanities because he understood their importance for a great university. He was a lover of music and art as noted in his obituary. He built the bare bones of a music program when he had no administrative support for it. He strengthened the theater program as well, and found money to hire faculty in the creative arts. Dan had a bad habit for an administrator. He often overspent his budget, and sometimes by a not so insignificant amount. He was called on the carpet for such transgressions but he still would overspend when he felt he was filling a critical void in what TAMU offered its students. Needless to say, the College prospered in his tenure. Dan understood the value of exposure to the liberal arts for all students, but especially so for those in applied fields. TAMU is a better University today because Dan Fallon spent almost a decade there more than 30 years ago. I am saddened by his death but so pleased that he spent his life contributing in the myriad ways that he did.

Dear Chris, Sylvia, Kathleen, Giovani, Santiago, Leo, & Charlie,

It is with such great sadness that we send our condolences for the loss of Dan.  We loved him and your family so much.  From the very beginning of our friendship, when Dan hired me and Brett as teachers of Russian at Texas A&M, we knew in our hearts that Dan was an extraordinary man.  How amazing it was to reconnect through our love of opera, through all the years of seeing Sasha's operas with you, Chris, and Dan.   Needless to say, we will always be grateful for your kindness, generosity, and big hearts.  Please know that Dan will always be missed!

Love,

Olga & Brett

We learned with great sorrow about Dan's passing.   He was a good friend, in our lives for a very long time.  We'll be thinking of Chris and the whole family.....all the best and please keep in touch.  Lisa and Stuart

I knew Dan through the NM Book Association, where we were both board members.  He was a great asset to the organization -- wise, level-headed, knowledgeable, and willing to help whenever needed.  We will all miss his kindness and good humor.  My condolences to his family.

I was Dan's assistant at Carnegie Corporation from 2005  to 2008. He was a man with exceptional taste and was an inspiration for how he lived, not just professionally, but as a multidimensional, intentional, and compassionate human being. He was always cool under pressure and was a reassuring presence for his team. He beamed with pride and joy whenever he talked about Chris and his beautiful family.

As the only member of my family who attended university, Dan believed in me and supported my professional aspirations. I have no doubt his letters of recommendation got me into graduate school and secured my jobs at two universities subsequently. He was instrumental in changing my life trajectory for the better.

Dan was not just a mentor in professional matters. I emailed him on his birthday every year since 2008, and he would always share an update on his life and his perspective if I mentioned something on my mind. His email to me on August 25 2025 included a quote from Martin Scorsese: "That’s how I learned what faith is: by losing it, doubting it, coming back to it ... I’ve come to understand that rather than a conviction of faith, I have a trust in faith. I trust there is faith—yes, there are doubts, at times, but really it’s a more constant searching, a constant attempt at living with faith. It’s about learning to adapt to whichever way the wave of faith takes you." 

This quote was in response to my sharing my anxiety over my 8th grader's complicated high school admission process in NYC. Dan and I had never talked about religion or spirituality, but I believe he was trying to comfort me that things will be okay. I will miss him dearly.

❤️ — with Daniel Fallon

Dan was more than a gentleman and a scholar; he was an exemplary human being, a good friend and a source of fun. The world is a less funny, bright, and amazing place without him in it.  His family will miss him and so will I.

He was always smiling and almost any conversation with him was memorable. His enthusiasm for life was exceptional. He was a very kind person as well.

He was curious about everything and knew in depth about whatever he was talking about whether it was his motorcycle, the Heath Kit TV he was constructing in the early 70s, or the attributes of the latest state-of-the-art shower stall that he was putting into his house that was under construction. He was a wonderful mentor for me in graduate school and what I learned from him I continue to use daily.

Our family always looked forward at Christmas to receiving a card from him and Chris that contained a summary of their adventures over the previous year. It was always a pleasure to see the depth and breadth of his interests and abilities and a pleasure to see what exceptional lives his family was living.

My deepest condolences to everyone in the family. I miss him.

Dan and I first became friends at Keene Elementary School in Washington DC. Our moms were co -Girl Scout leaders, so Dan would often say that we met in the Girl Scouts.  Our families went separate ways until, as young adults, Dan met Chris and I met Klaus. Over the next decades we got together frequently, were godparents to each other's children,  shared holiday celebrations and attended many operas together. His generosity was legendary. A year after Klaus's death, I wanted to go to Germany to be with his brother and family members.  My German was limited, so Dan  and Chris went to Germany with me  in order to make my reunions with the Brand family more workable. I will be forever grateful for that act of friendship.  Love and condolences  to Chris,  Katy, Sylvia , Gio and the three wonderful grandsons 

We met at an Antioch reunion. He and Chris shared their love of travel with me, a fan of France. He was unusually generous and creative with a delightful mind. My heart goes out to everyone  in the family.

Big Heart, endless curiosity, Open Smile. Go well, love and thank you

An exceptional human being.  Kind and generous.  Met at Antioch in 1956. Years later we  met again on FB.  His credentials are inspiring!  Karen Nowak Bachman

You will be remembered!  

Dear Chris, Terry and I enjoyed your and Dan’s company. He was a fascinating person and will be missed.

Our sincere condolences.

Dear Chris, Sylvia and Katy,

We were so shocked to hear about Dan’s passing. He was everything you could hope for in an old friend—a true gentleman, a wise mentor, and a masterful storyteller who could transport you to another time and place with just his words. Working alongside him at Carnegie Corporation for over twelve years was not just a privilege; it was one of the greatest honors of my life.

Dan was one of the warmest, most gentle souls we've ever known—a man who led with kindness and grace. He championed his staff with loyalty, navigating even the most complicated situations with remarkable skill and diplomacy. He made everyone around him feel valued and heard.

Dan was a raconteur in the finest sense—his stories about his childhood, about you and the grandchildren, lit him up with such love and pride. And his vast knowledge seemed boundless; he could talk about nearly anything with equal parts wisdom and wonder. His passion for music, especially opera, was infectious. I'll never forget him recounting how Wagner discovered a perfect note after hearing a blacksmith strike his anvil in an alley. The way Dan told it, I was completely riveted, transported right there with Wagner to that alley.

We will carry Dan with us—his warmth, his charm, those old-world graces that are so rare now. These are gifts he gave us, and ones I hope to honor for as long as I live.

With deepest sympathy and love,

Andres & Janet

I met Dan for the first time in PR, along with Chris, Katy and Sylvia. I loved how much he reveled in my people’s food, culture and people. He was totally game for things  others may have scoffed at or would look down upon. He embraced our  family’s eccentricities with a whimsical curiosity. I thank my lucky stars to have met him. Dan? You will be missed. 

Big Cat Found on Hidden Camera

Con mucha pena hemos sabido de la partida de Daniel.

Extrañaremos sus historias y su pasión por la vida. Recordaremos esos días en Santa Fe como una despedida hermosa, con quien nos contó y enseña tanto de nuestro pasado común.

Gracias Daniel por lo que nos dejaste.

Christine, Katy y Silvia; un abrazo fuerte.

Marlene y Diego Samper

Daniel & Christine

Dear Chris, dear Family members, It is so sad to learn that Dan passed away. He was such a lively and active person so it is hard to believe that he is gone. It was such a pleasure to work with him! All the best to you and your family! Warmest regards, Uli (former member of the American Friends BoD) 

I was deeply saddened to learn of the passing of my friend and mentor, Daniel Fallon. Dan recruited me to serve on the Board of Governors of Antioch University during his time at the Carnegie Foundation, and it was one of the great privileges of my professional life to serve alongside him.

He embodied a rare combination of gentility and strategic leadership, bringing grace, insight, and integrity to everything he did. His thoughtful guidance and vision left a lasting mark on everyone fortunate enough to collaborate with him.

I will always be grateful for his friendship, his mentorship, and the example he set. My heartfelt condolences go out to his family and all who loved and admired him.

— Janet M. Morgan