Dan and Patti moved into Griffin Ranch just about the same time that Bill and I did back in 2015. Back then there was nobody here and I often had the gym to myself. Dan would come in and get on the treadmill and we'd chat. He was always such a kind man, and I always enjoyed our talks about travel. When Bill died in 2016 it was nice to have Dan to talk to during those times in the gym. Once pickleball started it was great to get to interact with Dan and Patti on the courts. He always had a smile on his face, and everyone enjoyed being around him. He was taken way too soon and is missed by everyone who knew him.  We'll all surely be thinking of him daily, and remembering the good times, keeping his memory alive.

Dan and I were born only 18 months apart.  We grew up having each others backs all through our childhood and school years.  We shared a duplex, each on one side from the other in college at CU Boulder.  I have many good memories of Dan as he was a wonderful brother and person that I shall never stop missing.  He and I shared a room, dates, friends, hope and dreams and many great times together.  I pray that the memories I have will hold me together during this time of total loss.  All three of my brothers are gone now.  I don't have any to text, send thoughts to, ask questions of.  I am without them for the first time in my life and can't quite explain the feeling of loss and emptiness.  Love them all three and will forever miss them.  Dan, I love ya and look forward to when we can reunite.  You are in my heart forever.

Your sister,

Lu

Patti, Pete and I are so sorry for you and your families loss. We only knew Dan a few years but recognized a man who was devoted to his family. His face lit up when talking about Fiona and Jack. Praying that God’s peace and comfort continually surrounds you and your family💗

We thought we were quite happy living in Mountain View back in the early 1980’s, but one day in 1987 wife Jodi came home and said, “I was in Foster City today and met the nicest man. He showed me around some of the new houses in his neighborhood”. I thought, oh, oh.

And, that’s how it started. Six months later we were living one house away from Dan & Patti. Patti & Jodi were like two hummingbirds in a flower garden nursery. Dan & I were a little more laid back, although he got a nap every afternoon, I didn’t. We were privileged to become their good friends. We celebrated Patti & Jodi’s December birthdays, Monday night football in front of the big screen, bought a boat together for fishing & cruising, built backyard decks for each other, took trips into the city  in the old orange van, had garage sales beyond belief, and have enjoyed their wonderful friendship for many years.

Godspeed, Dan Carson. So glad you and Patti passed our way. We miss you.

Patti, we are so saddened to hear about Dan. He was such a wonderful man. We are grateful that we were able to spend time with you both in Italy. Rob and I will always remember Dan with a huge smile on his face as we were sitting in a coffee shop in Ragusa, Sicily having hot chocolate. It was pouring rain but he texted you a picture from one of the travel books nearby of a beautiful, sunshiny day in Italy. He laughed and laughed when you responded, ‘Where are you?’ Such a good, good man with a great sense of humor and a wonderful heart. He is already missed.

Love,

Billie and Rob Kastens

No words can express the sadness Jim and I feel for Patti’s and the family’s loss. We met Dan and Patti two and half years ago when we moved into Griffin Ranch. Dan was the kindest, sweetest and most gentle person. He was a true gentleman with a heart of gold and always there if you needed him. Dan was also a bit of intellectual who could discuss any topic. A man who knew every restaurant in the Coachella Valley and an expert on Mexican Cuisine. Generous to a fault, a great friend, a great pickleball partner, and a great traveling partner. We were blessed to have had the opportunity to travel with Dan and Patti to Italy and Maui during the last year. We were the lucky ones to be his friends! We will miss you Dan and will forever hold you in our hearts and memories.  Donna & Jim Kilpatrick

Dear Patti, 

We are so sad to hear about Dan. He was a wonderful man and truly great neighbor. You and Dan have been a part of our lives since we moved in next door to you 7 years ago. We are honored to have known Dan and we are here for you if you need anything. I so enjoyed painting Dan and his Red Vet. 

Stay well and take care of yourself.

Bonnie & Larry Strassmann

Please accept my sincere condolences to DAN's family.   I first met Dan after I had become friends with his two older brothers Jim and Tom at their parent's home in Fort Collins.  Dan and I were not close in the early years and I never knew him by his later nick name "Rip".  His eldest brother Jim was my close friend and we hung out a lot in the early years.  Then middle brother Tom called me one day to ask me if I would speak at Jim's funeral and I was shocked and scared but felt honored to do so.  Next, Tom and I became very close friends and we shared Carson family stories via emails for many years.  And then last year Dan emailed me to advise that Tom had passed and that his children would be having a celebration of life in the spring of 2021.  My wife Jeanne and I attended Tom's services in Fort Collins and there I was able to reunite with Dan and we shared thoughts of brotherly love which surrounded all three of the Carson sons.  Dan the youngest was the most confident, quiet hero type guy I've ever known.  Tom kept me apprised of Dan's successes in the business world, and many of their adventures on Harley Davidson bikes in their travels.  (Patti didn't partake in those motorcycle rides with Dan and Tom because she was pretty busy attaining the rank of Senior Vice President at United Airlines.)  The gorgeous pictures on the cover are just exactly the way I'll remember Dan Carson, honest, good looking, positive and always with a great big smile on his face. . .  which personifies the life long love he had for his wife Patti.   I will miss him, as he was my last connection to the fabulous trio of  Carson boys . . . God Bless Dan Carson.

Patti and Dan were on an impromptu vacation to New Zealand in 1976. I overheard the Hermitage Hotel tell them the Inn was full, no rooms available. I had rented a two bedroom chalet and so offered them a room for the night. We sat up drinking and playing cards till late. The next day swapped contacts and went our separate ways. Patti and Dan never did get back to NZ but over the last 46 years we have constantly been in touch. Many stays over the years at Millbrae and then Foster City. Somehow I thought there would always be Patti and Dan. Dan's passing has left a hole in my life and I send mountains of Love and thoughts to Patti and family

Although Randy and I have only known Dan and Patti for less than 2 years, we became fast friends.  We have traveled to Italy and Hawaii, and we have enjoyed countless dinners and evenings together.  We have never been to a restaurant or shared a meal with Dan that wasn't one of the best he's ever had.  But coming from someone who actually enjoyed sea rations, I shouldn't be surprised!

Dan grew up in Fort Collins, CO where I am from.  As it turned out, we had mutual friends over the years.   Dan's brother, Tom, was my dentist for 20+ years.    We had an immediate connection when we discovered our shared history.

Dan's biggest strength  was in his gentleness.  His eyes lite up his entire face when he spoke of his two beautiful grandchildren, Fiona and Jackson.  And he loved Patti with all of his heart.  They were a beautiful couple for almost 50 years.  We are privileged to have spent such great times with them both.  Yes, Dan, we will try to keep Patti in line.  We know you had a full time job!  

 

I can not remember a time when Dan was not a part of my life. I was nine or ten years old when Dan married my sister Patty.  Dan was always this calm voice of reason. I don't think I ever saw Dan mad. Dan was just the nicest guy.  If there was ever a person that just never got flustered, it was Dan.  Dan's brother Tom once said to me, "Patti is all  engine and Dan is all brakes".  It's why they just worked so well together.

Dan was there for all my high school football and baseball games. Every holiday event was usually hosted by Patti and Dan. Dan was just a good sport that way. I probably would have thrown fit, but not Dan. Dan helped me buy my first car and my first house. I think I still owe him $100 for one of those deals, I will give it to him when I see him next. Im pretty sure that Dan's bad back came from helping me move 37 times.  Hell, Dan even went to divorce court with me......Hey Dan what do you think about buying Amazon stock at $3700/share?  Dans answer, "that's the dumbest thing I have ever heard of".  Dan was just a straight shooter.

I called Dan and Patty on March 4, 1983 at 1:30am. Patty answered and I told her I needed to speak with Dan. I told Dan that our father had just passed away as I knew he would know what to do. Patty called me on May 20 at 6pm to tell us Dan had passed. I have been a policeman for 37 years and have lost too many friends and partners to cancer and heart attacks. I can tell you that it never get any easier especially when its your brother.....Love you P.

Susan and I were shocked when we heard the news about Dan. Patti and I went to high school together and I met Dan not to long after they started dating. Susan only had the pleasure of meeting Dan in early 2021. Dan was so kind and so much fun to be around. This past March Susan and I were in the desert with some friends of ours and the six of us had dinner one night. The evening was filled with laughter from start to finish. It was great to see Dan laughing so much that night. We've talked about that night many times since then. We're so grateful that we had that time with he and Patti. I just looked up the word "kind" in the dictionary and guess whose picture was there? We love you Dan! Patti, we're here for you. Love Paul and Susan.

We have been friends with Patti and Dan for almost as long as they have been married. We worked together, we bought our first townhomes in the same development, we bought similar businesses, we traveled and laughed together. We are stunned by Dan's loss and offer our love and condolences to Patti and her family. Gone way to soon. Rest in peace!

And many years later. . .

First, Mary and I would like to express our condolences, to Patti and family. Mary and I are so lucky to have had the privilege of getting to know Dan and Patti over the few years that we lived in La Quinta. Dan had the traits that any parent would be happy having their children acquire.  He was humble, considerate, friendly, honest and if you were lucky, a true friend. We shared a passion for reading and I always looked forward to sharing our opinions and trading our books back and forth. Usually, these great conversations occurred over a cocktail or a beer. If only the rest of the world would have been included in these talks, this would be a far better-off, world. Our hearts and prayers go out to the Carson family on their loss. Rest in Peace, Mr. Dan.  Love, Pete and Mary Dittemore

Dan and Patti became our dear neighbors seven years ago in La Quinta CA.  Susan and I enjoyed so many wonderful times together and were there for each other's family during times of need. Dan's temperament was so calm, kind, and endearing. Dan's kindness was his moniker; everyone loved being around this Gentleman.  His love for Patti, Chris and his Grandchildren were the foundation of his life. "Papa" was so deeply loved by Fiona and Jack and his joyful role in their young lives will be in their DNA forever.  We will miss his knowledge on so many topics, humor, principles, and the grace of such a truly humble man.  We share carry Dan, and these traits, forward in our lives. With love and support Garry and Susan Brooks

Patti, We we’re so saddened by this news! Dan will truly be missed!