Dora, Nanjo, Kandi, Okwa, Nase, Naso and Nabi, the wider Semambo and Rukare families and friends, its our prayer that God's love and grace will abound during this time and in the years to come.
Dora and I met in S1 at Gayaza 39 years ago and developed a friendship that has stood the test of time through high school, college, getting married, starting families and being separated by thousands of miles. I was reflecting on the fact that almost 25 of the 39 years have been while she is married to Dan. I give thanks to God for the gift of Dan as her partner.. At their very joyous wedding celebration, several of us her peers were running around serving guests and cleaning up when we were stopped in our tracks and stood gaping as Dan serenaded Dora with the words of the song " You are flesh of my flesh" There was such adoration in his powerful voice as he sang to her " you are flesh of my flesh, bone of my bone there is no one closer....We are one....I do pledge my life to you forever and always..... I will take good care of you and shower you with praise..... I will stand right by your side.."
Dan kept those promises - each and every one of them through the years. He loved Dora. He loved his daughters.
He always warmly welcomed all of us her friends and our families into their home and made us feel at home. He counseled and advised and prayed for and with us.
When several of us Dora's friends later left Uganda for the US we got creative at keeping in touch in between our visits to Uganda because as a very busy working mother and wife, Dora did not do social media much however when we wanted to make sure all was well in her world we checked in with Dan and he always responded promptly and cheerfully giving us full updates and we were content that all was well in Dora's world.
Dan and Dora have raised wonderful daughters . To summarize, they are God fearing, strong, organized, very respectful, hard working and enterprising, determined young ladies.
Girls - May you find comfort in the words of the song "Because he lives I can face tomorrow, Because he lives all fear is gone, Because I know he holds the future."
The special message from my husband Ben Twin who ministered with your father in Joint Heirs and asked me to deliver is that he wants you to know your Dad's love abides with you and he would like you to imagine him singing to you the song If I could by Barbara Streisand.