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Connor was more than my brother—he was my twin, my first best friend, and someone who had been beside me since the very beginning of life. From the moment we entered this world together, we shared a bond that words can never fully explain.

We grew up side by side, carrying a connection that only twins understand. No matter where life took us, a part of me always knew he was there. Losing him feels like losing part of myself. Even through hell and back, through losses, addictions, deaths, divorces, loneliness snd sorrow...despite times of not speaking to eachother, he was always there. If I needed him he would come.

Connor had a presence you could never forget. He gave the kind of bear hugs that made you feel safe and loved. He had a laugh that filled a room and a spirit that drew people in. He loved deeply—especially his children, Mavis and Gehrig, who were the center of his world. The thing I have heard most from his friends and loved ones is "he had such a huge heart ".

He found joy in the simple and beautiful things: being outdoors, fishing, skiing, building something with his hands, loving dogs, and spending time with the people he cared about. He lived with heart, humor, humility and the kind of strength that can only come from heartache and resilience.

I will miss him for the rest of my life. I will miss knowing my twin is here in this world with me. But I will carry him with me always—in my memories, in my heart, and in the bond that even death cannot break.

Connor, I loved you from the very start, and I will love you for the rest of my days. Rest peacefully, brother.

Thank you so much to everyone visiting this page. We will miss Connor tremendously and would love to have you share your favorite memories of him on this website.

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Connor Scott McCarthy, age 42, passed away unexpectedly. Born on February 4, 1984, in Littleton, Colorado, Connor was the beloved son of Deb McCarthy and the late Phil McCarthy.

Connor was a devoted father whose greatest love in life was his children, Mavis and Gehrig. He was deeply proud of them and cherished every moment spent with them. 

He will be remembered for his unforgettable bear hugs, contagious laugh, kind heart, and the way he …

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The world has lost one of the good guys but he will always be in our hearts. RIP Connor and we'll think of you often. L…
The world has lost one of the good guys but he will always be in our hearts. RIP Connor and we'll t…
The world has lost one of the good guys but he will always be in…
Our family remembers Connor as such a vibrant young man- he had a real warmth to him and an easy smile. He will be deep…
Our family remembers Connor as such a vibrant young man- he had a real warmth to him and an easy sm…
Our family remembers Connor as such a vibrant young man- he had …

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Born

February 4th, 1984
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Passed away

April 14th, 2026
Shoreham, VT

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