Paul was a great admirable guy, I have great memories of his coaching style as well as his sense of humor. He wouldn’t hesitate to jump in and go at it in the room, something I am more so now getting a better respect of just how much this sport impacts your body when you’re not 18, even if Paul thought he was at the time! He was such a loyal and high work ethic coach, I remember telling my parents after first meeting “the new coaches”, and there was one with this crazy look in his eyes, looked like he meant business from jump. Well those “crazy eyes” were just his intensity and love for the sport and his commitment to helping us as young men. The ability to push hard when needed or put an arm around you when he knew it was time. I appreciate his intensity and can feel that in my psyche still. That helped push me where I needed to go, and not just as a wrestler, but as a man. Getting to know him better, it wasn’t crazy at all, what a goofball… ok and maybe a little crazy!

I’ll miss ya Paul, save me a spot in the corner, we’ll go takedowns and pick up where we left off. 

I have many, many fond memories of Paul and his predominantly kind and bright spirit. His enthusiasm and strong sense of care was always contagious and delightful in my view. I didn't know him much off the mat, but I know all these good qualities in him weren't just for show. He wasn't afraid to wear his heart on his sleeve, because of his moral strength. One night after returning to the island after a tiring tournament, I decided to drive through at Dairy Queen to give myself a treat as I wouldn't need to face my weight for a good couple days. It was pretty late at night, hardly anyone around - just one truck in front of me. I don't recall exactly when I recognized it was Paul's vehicle, but when I did, I honestly was feeling slightly self conscious in the chance that he would recognize my car behind him and know I was casting my wrestling weight cares to the wind. This feeling didn't last long, though, because as he pulled away and I drove up to the pick-up window, the DQ employee informed me that the person who ordered just before me covered the cost of my full order. I can't describe how overwhelmed with relief and joy I felt as I processed what happened. That wonderful feeling stuck with me and I can still vividly remember many of the details of the night, all thanks to this deeply considerate and caring act of Paul's for me. I know its effects on me were far-reaching, helping me to realize the importance of genuine relationships that go beyond a building or a sport or any one circumstance. We never spoke about what happened, but I know we didn't need to. From then on, his smile always meant more than just a smile. It was a real and special connection that developed. Thanks to the family for your part in supporting the lovely person that Paul was. I owe you all a very large debt of gratitude from the bottom of my heart.