CLARENCE's obituary
Clarence Pumphrey
October 22, 1925 - August 16, 2024
Born in the heart of Philadelphia County to Jason Drake and Clara Haksion, Clarence Pumphrey embarked on a journey that would span nearly a century, touching lives far and wide. In the stormy seas of the world, Clarence found his calling, joining the United States Coast Guard as a Merchant Marine during the Second World War. With steadfast resolve, he sailed through the fog of war, bringing hope and supplies to those in need. His service was not just a duty but a testament to his unwavering spirit, earning him the Vietnam Service Bar and the respect of all who sailed beside him.
For over 30 years, Clarence’s life was intertwined with the rhythm of the ocean, from the Korean Conflict to Vietnam, where he became a beacon of support and strength. Yet, his true legacy was not only in the medals he earned but in the skills and values he imparted to those he loved. At home, Clarence was a craftsman of the highest order, a teacher to the young, instilling in them the power of self-sufficiency, the value of hard work, and the importance of integrity.
In the early 1970s, Clarence became a proud member of the Freemasons, joining Trinity Lodge No. 28, where his brothers in arms found in him a man of honor and loyalty. His marriage to Wenonah Pumphrey brought him joy and three sons—Wilson Spann, Thomas Coley, and the late John Pumphrey—whom he guided with the quiet wisdom of a seasoned mariner. His grandchildren Tiecher, Nysha, Emmanuel, Thomas Jr., and Jamila, along with a multitude of great-grandchildren and three great-great-grandchildren, continue to carry his spirit forward, each step anchored in the lessons he imparted.
To many, Clarence was more than a sailor. He was a stepfather, uncle, great-uncle, and mentor. His influence was felt in quiet moments and grand gestures, in the simple act of fixing a broken door or the profound wisdom shared over a cup of coffee. His family, ever expecting him to reach the century mark like his beloved sister Carrie Fox, was shocked by his sudden departure. Yet, they take solace in the knowledge that Clarence lived a life full of purpose, adventure, and love.
Clarence did not always see eye to eye with those around him, but in the end, he forgave those who wronged him and he kept faith with those who loved him best!
Clarence was a Good Man—a Good Brother, a Proud and Brave Merchant Marine, a Mentor, a Good Uncle, and a True Friend. And for myself, he shall always have My Love, My Respect and My Lasting Gratitude.
His life was a testament to the values he held dear: Service, Family, Community and Nation. His final wish, to be buried at sea, brings his journey full circle. As he returns to the waters he once sailed, we are reminded that his legacy will continue to ripple through the lives of those he touched. If any man could say half as much about me when I am gone, I should be proud of it!
He will be missed, but never forgotten. May the sea carry him gently to his final rest, a fitting tribute to a life well-lived in service to others.