Christian's obituary
Christian Gorder passed away on February 19, 2022 after a long battle with heart failure. He is survived by his loving wife of 31 years, Bernice Gorder, his three children, Kimberly Stevens, Lance and Ross Gorder, grandchildren Shawn Stevens and Joshua Miller, great-grandchild Josephine, brothers Dean and Don Gorder, and many nephews and nieces.
Chris was a dynamic individual. His vibrant enthusiasm and unique observations of life and the world around him often morphed into colorful tales which he share with family, friends and loved ones. His spunky attitude and playful nature were signature to his character, as was his devotion to his faith. He was a longtime member of Willow Creek Community Church, where he volunteered and found connection.
Chris and his second wife, Bernice, shared a vibrant life. They began dating 40 years ago and bonded immediately. Theirs was a strong connection, and nine years later, they married. Their relationship was filled with deep love, humor, compassion, a mutual understanding for one another, and many bold adventures. They traveled quite a bit, actually, whether it be cross-country visiting national treasures such as Yellowstone, Yosemite, and the Big Sur Coast, or to Florida for respites during Chicago's chilly months where they'd spend quality time with numerous friends. Their days were filled with engaging conversations, planning new outings, gardening, or connecting with their wide range of close friends and dear family members.
Chris was a proud father, grandfather, and great-grandfather. Prior to meeting Bernice, Chris had three children. He often shared his unique perception of life and the world with Kim, Lance and Ross, engaging them in many a thought-provoking conversation; often filled with humor. Chris took his daughter horseback riding, where he taught her to face challenges head on. He shared a great love of the great outdoors with his sons—camping, fishing, or even teaching them to shoot a bow and arrow. Chris encouraged all of his children, in fact, to "do better" and learn as much as they could about life.
In this professional life, Chris worked for 30 years for the Chicago Board of Education as a Schools Engineer. He eventually managed a core group that kept Chicago schools clean and safe.
Chris's personal interests varied. He was very health-conscious. That said, he was also a bona fide ice cream fan. Anybody who knew him marveled at how many scoops of that treat he could enjoy. Chris also enjoyed hunting, fishing, boating, and studying natural wonders. In his later years, he was mesmerized by the Natural Geographic Channel. He was an avid Westerns fan.
Chris was larger than life. Unforgettable in many ways. His faith was strong till the end. He will be greatly missed.