Chris performed three tattoos on my left thigh as part of his early graduation into Nolan’s academy, a lifelong journey of learning which both acknowledged. Though he was nervous, Chris was quite proud to be participating in this rite of his apprenticeship.
I asked of Chris, and received, a plump busy bee - what we thought might be a small prehistoric winged worker amongst the dinosaurs. It’s still buzzing, of course. Buzzing like machines… Buzzing like brains full of accumulated knowledge, ideas, dreams…
Chris added a — (I’ll just have a look…) — sakura, a Japanese cherry blossom, next to those inked in previously by Nolan.
Sakura are held in reverence in Japanese culture due to their impermanence. The flowers blossom, are enjoyed, and soon fall; leaving mere memories…
From the tale of the cherry blossoms I learned — and I relearn at sorrowful times — to enjoy the beauty of moments, of friendships, of the transient wonder of it all . . . For times are brief, human beings - no matter the size - are frail, photos don’t capture everything, words are inadequate, and…it is all so exquisitely precious when a bright spark crosses a gap, when grins recognize one another, when a deep soul is in our lives . . . if only for a brief, brilliant bloom . . .
Chris grasped the meaning of his moments. We all hear yet his sentences replete with details of his sons, his travels, his soaring bike jumps, his medical education, his welding jobs, his family, his Danielle, his arms-width dreams… Chris cherished his many precious cherry blossoms!!
That sole sakura on my skin will remain a reminder of a lovely soul with whom I was only just now getting to know.
My sympathy… Catch the moments!!!