My condolences to Chadwich's family. I first met Chadwich  years ago  and we would often sit and talk for hours and not even realize the passage of time.  We shared much in common.  Mainly,  the fact that neither of us wanted to break norms and reveal the intimate relationship we shared. It wasn't until his wife, Debra,  who knew Chad well,  took the quest of informing all who knew him of his passing.  Chad ( as he preferred to be called), enjoyed the privilege of being many things,  especially privacy,  would appreciate the eulogy presented by his ex-wife. I shared a bond with him and although he departed far too soon, I often heard him speak about his health and,  perhaps,  his deepest thoughts enough to know that he would,  in his own way,  not mind me expressing my sincere thoughts.  He was a man of many interests. I don't regret coming to know him as I did. He had the capacity to love people in different ways.  Society is far more accepting of the relationship he and I shared than when we first began.  May God speed his eternal soul.  He is at peace now.