Memories of Brian Paul Vespi

In memory of

Brian Paul Vespi

North Syracuse, NY, USA

January 18, 1980 - January 1, 2021

Jan 18, 1980 - Jan 1, 2021

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Janan Michelle

Brian I miss you so much. I wish we could have one more conversation 😔

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Stephanie Hoch

I'm at a loss for words. I don't even know where to begin. I haven't spoken to Brian in almost 3 years but lately something has been telling me to reach out/google him and tonight thats just what I did. Never in a million years did I ever think I would find his obituary and to be honest I'm still in disbelief. Before sitting down to write this, I googled his name a couple more times and each time the same thing popped up so I guess I have no chance but to believe it. Maybe, I'll wake up tomorrow and this will be a nightmare and as much as I want to believe that we all know that its far from the truth. I have had the privilege of knowing Brian for what would have been 15 years on August 30... How do I know the exact date? I met him on my birthday. I used to tell him he was the best birthday gift. Throughout the years, I witnessed some of the things he struggled with and whatever I didn't witness, he kept me posted. In 2007, I lost my sister and I know he felt the affects also. Regardless of the things he was going through he always wanted to make sure I was good and able to mourn properly. I will forever be grateful that no matter how much I pushed, he would pull during that time. Brian and I were to very strong minded individuals who would fight/argue about anything and everything. We would go a couple months without talking and then pick right back up where we left off like nothing happened. Had I would've known then that we wouldn't have much time left, I would have just swallowed my pride and kept my mouth shut. On the bright side, if you had the opportunity of knowing Brian or just meeting him for the first time you were the lucky one. Brian was amazing in every aspect. He would do anything for those he loved and also those he barely knew. We were lucky to have him down here but the angels are even luckier to get him back because he truly was an angel here on earth. Brian, I hope you are finally at peace and that you and Kenny are kicking it!I'm sure you were also happy to see your step dad and those whom you lost over the years. My heart goes out to his mom because I can't begin to imagine what you're going through right now. I know you to were extremely close and had been through hell in high waters together. Aside from Kenny (RIP) Brian spoke highly of Marla and his brother (forgive me for not being able to recall your name as my brain is rattling right now) My heart is with each and everyone of you. I will carry the memories with me for the rest of my life. I pray that you are comforted with the memories you each hold and the mark he himself left on each of us in one way or another. Although its four months later, if there is anything I can do please don't hesitate.

Love,
Stephanie

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